what is okay to wear when going out for a drink ?

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  1. quamen

    quamen New Member

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    I have a date on Saturday night with a woman i met, she is 27 and i am 28 yrs old. I haven't dated much in the past, but i don't know what to wear. I wanted to wear a nicer pair of jeans, a button down shirt and nice shoes, but i don't know if this is going to be under dressed or not? WE are going to a lounge type of bar/mansion that was converted into a bar/event holding type of deal.
     
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    How do people normally dress at this place? That's really the deciding factor...

    If you're not sure, I guess your idea is good if you wear some nice shoes, nice watch and comb your hair sonny. Throw on a blazer too if you have one. Stand up straight, shoulders back and smile.
     
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    that sounds good as long as the jeans aren't ripped up. Also, remember that over dressing is better than under dressing because depending on the time you can always play off the fact that you came from or are going to a fancier place.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Straight clean jeans, square toed shoes and a nice shirt, you'll be fine

    And make sure you're wearing the appropriate socks...

    BLACK SHOES BLACK SOCKS
     
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    for your shirt, make sure its not too big too. you never tuck in a dress shirt into jeans unless you are someplace where cowboy hats or "young republican" pins are worn. You want to make sure its a shorter, more fitted shirt. They are not "the best" by any means, but go to express and try on a "fitted" (not "modern fit" or "classic fit") shirt to get an idea of what a dress shirt should fit like for night wear. Always top two buttons unbuttoned.

    wear something else... a watch, a bracelet, whatever.

    a blazer is tougher then the guy made it sound. A jacket over a graphic tee is ok, but a jacket with a dress shirt is a bit too dressy for a lot of places, and if you are not comfortable, its gonna show.


    I almost exclusively wear jeans with some wear. wear whatever jeans you like best as long as they are not ratty or stained. Obviously if you can pull off more stylish, thats great. I wear stuff like this. (cant find a pic of my favorite jeans... which i need to replace but cant find anywhere... :wtc: )


    nice dress shirt, 2 sizes too small, sleeves rolled up to elbows (the sleeves are never long enough for me anyway, so i might as well looked jacked)

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    with something like this.

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    lulz.. who can tell im procrastinating at work? :hs:
     
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  6. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    tee shirt (not under shirt. like a real tee shirt that's fitted)
    button down left unbuttoned
    blazer
    Not shitty jeans
    Nice shoes, preferably square toed, not sneakers
    done





    *edit. If you layer than you're potentially ready for any situation. Fancy? Button up and leave the jacket on. Casual but put together? leave the shirt unbuttoned and the jacket on. Going to your friend's house for a few brews after? Ditch the button down and jacket cause you already have your favorite tee shirt on. :dunno: Allll good.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    Holy fuck thats pretty much an exact outfit that I wear/would wear on a night out. Like, to a T.
     
  8. Amanda Ann

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    wear clean undies
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    :werd:

    Fresh Boxer briefs ftw.
     
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    the FUCK is that? a cock ring?
     
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    yah boxer briefs FTW


    if i was ever hooking up with a guy and i took off his pants to see a pair of tighty whiteys, i'd leave.
     
  12. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :roflw: 100% correct.
     
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    i told my bf this the other day as we were getting dressed and he said that as he grew older he ended up liking boxer briefs better than boxers


    apparently in the military they issue you BROWN tighy whiteys..WTF.. glad we weren't dating then! :rofl::rofl:
     
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    hell yeah... one of these days we gotta chill bro. :bigthumb:


    werd. and anything but white unless you wanna buy new ones after wearing em 3 or 4 times and they start turning gray and dingy.

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    Im going to get a pair of spider man tighty whiteys just for lulz one of these days
     
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    :rofl::rofl: IN for the outcome!
     
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    square toed shoes :rofl:
     
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    I'm all for some light wrist wear, but... :rofl::rofl:
     
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    lol.. should have clarified, i wouldn't wear the skull thing. just wanted to show you what the first one was
     
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    even without the skull.... what's the point? looks like it'd go well with an Affliction tee :rofl:
     
  21. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    I'm not so much a fan of the cuff personally but I can see how it could work. :dunno:
     
  22. antihero

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    style doesnt have a "point" it has a look. The point is that there is no point and I just like the way it looks. People who only wear things that have a point are the opposite of stylish.

    whats the "point" of wearing [​IMG] instead of this [​IMG]

    casio is more functional and less expensive than the tag... might as well wear that eh?
     
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    I think there's a BIG difference between a watch and a large piece of black leather wrapped around your wrist. But to each his own... didn't mean to offend
     
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    Not offended in the least. The fact that not everyone would wear it, likes it, etc is exactly why I like it so much. the best stuff is the stuff that fits your personal style but not everyone's.

    I don't see any difference. If I want a classier look I wear a watch, if a want a more stylish edgy look I wear a cuff... of which i probably have like 6
     
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  25. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :werd: :werd: :werd:

    Confidence is a big part of fashion, IMO. You can pull off just about anything if you have the confidence to wear it.
     

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