Alright. I was dating a girl for about 9 months. Everything was awesome in the begining blah blah blah. Then I decided I was going to move to Nashville and broke up with her a month before I was going to leave. It was at the point where I just wasn't feeling anything for her anymore and just needed to do my own thing. The day after the break up I was obsessed with her. I had to be near her, I needed her in my life. We got back together and the sex was amazing the relationship was back to being a great time. So I move to Nashville. She comes up to visit, great time. I come down there to see her and its so so. Then she flys up the third time and im really not feeling it. A couple weeks after the last visit I break up with her (shes still living in orlando). The second I broke up with her, I can't stop thinking about her, I need her, I want her here so badly it hurts, and shes had enough of the break ups at this point. She says to me, "She has to work on becoming a whole person without me before we can restart a relationship." I can't figure out what my problem here is. I do this everytime. Anyone have any ideas? Sorry if this was vauge, I'm multitasking.