To help everyone avoid reading a cluster fuck I have a problem getting attached to girls... but not stalkerish or flirty-ish I started dating a girl a little over a month ago (made a thread about a break up we had).. and from the get go I was never very enthused about her plainly because we didn't have anything in common, we both just had a lot of fun whenever we went out partying.. and the sex was very good.. well anyways, we break up for trust issues after the first or second week becuase she thought i was cheating on her already (RED FLAG).. and after that we got back together and she said that i never acted really interested in her so from then on I started treating her a lot better..(girl was nothing but a party animal, drunk, and sex freak.. going nowhere in life).. so I figured me treating her better was what was gonna help her feel better, as she has been treated like shit her entire life.. and after that it seemed every weekend we would get in a fight, and I knew it was doomed, but again did not feel attached or caring of losing the relationship.. well finally we go out drinkin this last week and we go to a dance club, Im not much of a dancer, and she knows it.. jus tnot a fan, have no rythm (im white).. she wanted to dance in the big mosh pit, I did not.. we fight, go to the car, fight more, break up, get back together, break up, get back together... both just goin at it with the arguing.. finally we end up back at the parking lot where my car is.. and we argue a little more.. finally she says that she doesnt want to compromise herself for anyone.. so after arguing a little more I finally had enough and got out of the car and left.. ever since then it hadnt really bothered me, I kept myself busy to keep it off my mind.. tonight I decided (stupidly) to im her and see whats up.. she basically re-says what she said int he car.. then blocks me.. Idk, I dumped her, I should feel nothing after this, but for some reason I do.. I care, but I really dont.. I wouldnt date her right now if I had the chance.. I just cant explain how I feel.. its difficult.. I guess I need help figuring ways to better get over people.. I just have difficulty letting go.. I can dump girlfriends if I dont like them, I can tell friends to fuck off If I dont like them, but I for some reason dont like having people not like me.. I have tons of friends and tons of exes who I can call up at any time and hold a legit convo with.. but idk, I just feel really foolish for even caring about this situation.. any advice? any good reads I can find to help me overcome or understand this problem? ;;edit;; shit feels so much better to type out..