what is it with girls???

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  1. njftw

    njftw New Member

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    This isn't a troll thread either, by the way.

    I guess it really just varies from girl to girl, but it amazes me how a lot of women find muscular mean "ugly".

    Now, I understand if a woman sees Ronnie Coleman for the first time, or people like Wolf... to think they are disgusting. But recently I had this discussion with the SO because she wask asking me how "big" do I want to get.

    For me, size looks great, and I'm sure it's a satisfying feeling looking in the mirror. So for an example, I showed her a couple of pics of Frank Zane and actually some of Timber. Obviously these are just "would like's" because of how different everyone is.

    Her response, "I'm sorry honey, but that's ugly"

    :hs:



    Feel like discussing? If not, fuck off, I don't care. I'm bored at work.
     
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    Just like some men like big asses, some don't.
     
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    they say they don't like it because it makes them feel worthless, which they usually are.
     
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    Good comparison. Because I myself and a boob guy, so this makes perfect sense.
     
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    :werd: I am an ass man, Boobs not so much. :)
     
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    do what you want to do and don't worry about it

    with my ex she was "don't get too big" from when i was 170lbs or so. its 55lbs without all that much fat later (obv some) and she was recently telling me which muscles need to get bigger.

    i think its one of those things a lot of girls worry about and show concern over but they don't actually have any idea when/where "too big" will be, and i personally have a suspicion its not the muscle but a good amount of mass with super freaky veins everywhere that they find disgusting.

    either way shouldnt let it bother you if you want to get big.
     
  7. Frank Dux

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    Sad but true.... Fuck 'em. I don't let what women think is perfect rule my life. I'm gonna do what I wanna do and look how I wanna look.

    I think it's funny that a lot of guys think jacked guys get a shit ton of pussy. I had a dude come up to me at the gym not too long ago and say "Do you fuck a different girl every night?" I was like :rofl::rofl::hs:
     
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    :rofl::werd:

    confidence does go up though, which helps some
     
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    Yeah, I really agree with this, makes a lot of sense. Especially if they are seeing you everyday, they aren't going to be able to notice as much, liek youself :wtc:
    BAM, this is true
     
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    Because it means they will have to compete with you more and that scares them. Say you look like some Chippendale then that means they need to look like Pamela and obviously shes lazy and doesn't want that competition.
     
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    this discussion among bf's and gf's always amazes me

    guy: RAR IM GONNA GET LIKE RONNIE, YOU MIND, BABE?

    girl: omg omg, no way, i cant be with someone that big!!!

    guy: RARRR BUT ITS MY PASSION, ITS MY GOAL, YOU WONT STOP ME!

    girl: omg but its so...gross...its so...scary...i cant..i just...omg..well..i guess babe.

    guy: RARRRR FUCK YEARR LYTW8 BABY.



    point is you will never look like ronnie or zane so stop wasting your breath.
     
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    :werd: thats funny though

    Lol, funny convo. I don't want to look like ronnie. And don't tell me what I will or wont do.... dewd
     
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    i just did. you WONT look like ronnie or zane. bitch.
     
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    From my discussions with female friends, it's the vascularity that bothers thems over size. they'd rather a guy with a big build and a bit of flab over a leaner guy with ab veins.

    that being said - if she doesn't like you for who you are, regardless of how you look like, then she's not worth it. Regardles if your fat or lean, tall or small.
     
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    you showed her pictures of professionals and freaks of nature. What did you expect?

    you are never going to be as big as zane or, for any considerable length of time, as lean as timber.
     
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    I came in here expecting pictures.


    Of girls.
     
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    We've been over this a million times. Being semi-jacked does make it slightly easier to approach chicks but you still have to open your mouth and close the deal. Also, being super zipped/lean/huge/vascular/etc is a turn-off to most women but 99% of the people in this forum will never get there so don't worry about it. However, gay dudes love that 1% so if you're gay start pinning test. :rofl:
     
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    The next time you go out to a bar/resturant/club/etc you will see plenty of hot chicks with average looking dudes. Women aren't as superficial as men are.
     
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    zane was lass than 200 lbs :) but he is still a total freak of nature to be less than 200 and look like that
     
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    Show her some pictures of a build you are shooting for or are likely to attain.

    Also I think some girlfriends are afraid that if you get in really good shape you will leave them. I had a lady friend of mine tell me recently she could never date a guy like me because I'm in better shape then her, it would make her feel insecure about the relationship. This girl had a great body, and her boyfriend is short, ugly, out of shape, and basically a loser. But that puts her in charge of the relationship.
     
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    also who gives a shit what she thinks
     
  22. Frank Dux

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    snap

    bold statement
     
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    when it comes to looks i would agree you can be average and pull hot chicks if you have a little confidence and personality
     
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    all women like muscles deep down, it's just the average, insecure ones can't handle dating a dude that's in better shape then them...fuck, but not date. Most women want the upper hand in a relationship so they won't feel so worthless.

    check out the dimes that love working out themselves and they'll always be with a swole bro...it's cause they're more confident. They prob laugh at noodle armed faggots as well.
     
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