What is it about fuck buddies that I find so interesting??

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  1. HoVa

    HoVa New Member

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    so back when i was single and ready to mingle, i had about 4 fuck buddies rotating at any one time.

    I mean, it was only for fun but after awhile it got old.

    now that i have a GF and possibly going to get married with, why do i look back at my single days and miss it?

    I mean, the reason why i stopped having random fuck buddies was because it was shallow and i wanted more. Now that i have more, I want less..

    :wtc:

    :dunno:
     
  2. Sunnyday

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    I guess the grass is always greener. I'm the same. When I'm single, I want to be in a relationship. When I'm in a relationship, all my friends are single and out having fun and I feel like I'm missing out..

    I guess it must mean I haven't met "The One" yet!
     
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    aSiAnRiCk New Member

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    perhaps the fact you have less responsibility? also, the fact you don't spend a lot of times with them
     
  4. I don't think people were meant to stay in relationships for their entire lives, and variety does keep us interested. Thats why people stray even though they love the person they are with. Face it, even after a few years you get bored with someone in bed, we just crave something new. Something to get the juices running and exciting instead of the same ole same ole. Nothing like being with someone new and feeling that excitement.
     
  5. Sionell89

    Sionell89 I grew up when I wasn't looking

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    Nature wired you that way. It's hormones.
     
  6. Master Shake

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    I never ever once thought about fuck buddies..why? Because I'm into committed relationships and want to express my feelings to a female instead of just sticking my cock in one to show her that all I care about is pussy. It's about more then sex to me when it comes to girls I guess.
     
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    because the syndrome ONEGINA is setting in
     
  8. chica&buddies

    chica&buddies Active Member

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    :eek3: wow... 4 rotating at one time? did they all know about each other?
     
  9. Nismotic

    Nismotic Swat came into my house...disrespected my family..

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    As long as it's mutual, then fuck buddies are the best thing closest to a relationship.
     
  10. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    sounds like "grass is greener" syndrome to me :)
     
  11. HoVa

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    they knew that i was single and mingling, but they never knew about each other s or how many i was juggling at one time..

    some i saw more than others, but i still kept in contact and such.
     
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    :) I applaud your sensitivity.
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    :wtc: Having just been gone thru a guy like you, the only thing I want to say to you is be aware of people's feelings....it isn't a game...and sometimes the pain goes way past hurt.
     
  14. HoVa

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    im always up front with them.

    i tell them before hand that i had no intentions of committing. there was no hurt feelings on either end so the guy that played you wasnt up front. either that or you didnt want to accept that he didnt want to commit.
     
  15. HoVa

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    so anyways, an update on the situation:

    i was this close |-| to saying fuck it to our 3 year relationship.. she just gets in these pissy moods and im always joking around.. its always such a downer when she does shit like that..


    why not just end it you ask? its hard to find a girl that is completely responsible and has a great career... so i guess im sacrificing one thing for another..
     
  16. Mikey

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    i see... would you told them if they had asked? :dunno: ... just curious, that's all. :)
     

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