What is going on in her head

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by biscuit7000, May 31, 2007.

  1. biscuit7000

    biscuit7000 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 31, 2002
    Messages:
    2,263
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    San Diego CA
    Alright i met this chick a month or so back and i totally dug her. And started making moves to get to know her/start a relationship with her, she seems to be doing the same. After a week of this she says she just wants to be friends and doesnt want to have a relationship with me.

    Im bummed at first an after a week of that i figure yeah shes cool and i could be friends with her.

    Anyway 2 weeks later we go to a baseball game for my buddies birthday we are drinking having a good time we are flirting all night holding hands and shes sitting on my lap. And she sees me flirting with some other girls when we get back to the house and keeps asking me to take shots with her just so id pay attention to her. Anyway we do that she gets up and leaves. I go to find her and shes in my bed and i climb in and we fuck.

    Next morning we are hung over joking around like usual but the last week she is avoiding me and we chilled in a group setting last night and she was giving me alot of atitude and being a bitch. So ask her if we are cool and she says no, i ask her if we can talk about it and she says no. I call her when i get home and shes says that nothing is up and she was just really tired.

    What the fuck is going on with her?!? Is she pissed about the one night stand?
     
  2. Kalypso

    Kalypso New Member

    Joined:
    May 12, 2007
    Messages:
    1,105
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Tallahassee, Florida
    Evil Things. Don't try to understand them.

    I imagine the inner workings of a female mind are something akin to Zoroastrian hell tbh. Scary shit.
     
  3. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

    Joined:
    May 5, 2002
    Messages:
    57,467
    Likes Received:
    8
    Location:
    the streets
    why are you pushing for a relationship?

    from her viewpoint, you don't know her well enough yet

    make her be the one to push for the relationship!
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2006
    Messages:
    32,592
    Likes Received:
    5
    How the fuck are we supposed to know? This is for you to figure out....if you care enough to.
     
  5. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

    Joined:
    Jun 23, 2006
    Messages:
    65,506
    Likes Received:
    1
    She's playing games with you. Push pull shit.

    I'd say "Next!" if I were you.
     
  6. bigfodee

    bigfodee Active Member

    Joined:
    Apr 29, 2002
    Messages:
    18,742
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Royal Oak, MI
    .
     
  7. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 11, 2004
    Messages:
    4,413
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NOVA
    She said she wasn't attracted to you, yet you lacked the self control to NOT fuck her. You blew it, dude. That's why she's mad.

    Why in the world would you be friends with her anyway? Other women assume you're in love with her and often won't have anything to do with you.
     
  8. Ricky_Blanks

    Ricky_Blanks New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 11, 2007
    Messages:
    300
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New Jersey
    She jumped into bed to prove she was better than the other girls you were flirting with. Once she proved that, she was done.

    Stop showing interest and maybe she will come back.
     
  9. DvBoard

    DvBoard New Member

    Joined:
    May 6, 2007
    Messages:
    472
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Mars (Southern Indiana)
    Sounds like she got what she wanted, and now she's pissed. Almost like she would have rather not gotten it and still wanted it.

    Or maybe you just suck in bed :lol:.
     
  10. iceman1123

    iceman1123 Guest

    Hmm....let's take an objective look at this.

    1. she said no
    2. you were drunk
    3. she might have wanted to test you out...or was jealous and shes over it
    4. she was giving you attitude
    4b. push her in front of a bus
    5. dont try to figure it out, ignore her!
     
  11. iceman1123

    iceman1123 Guest

    motherfucking .
     
  12. huntz0r

    huntz0r New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 18, 2005
    Messages:
    15,951
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Charlotte, NC
    Girls who aren't attracted to you beg for your attention, then go home with you and have sex? Hmm I dunno. I would take this as a classic case of "what she says means nothing, what she does says everything"

    Nah it sounds to me like he doesn't know to quit while he's ahead and is spending too much time with her. When she cools, he backs off for a while, which makes her hot again, so he goes back and wears out his welcome and she cools off again and he backs off... rinse/repeat

    Natural behavior all around, but unproductive. Be more of a challenge.
     
    Last edited: Jun 2, 2007

Share This Page