I think my personality is kinda shitty, that is how come i have not much success with woman. Im a fairly attractive guy, but when im kinda clueless of what a good personality is. I believe this is really where i end up losing the girls i end up dating or just trying to get a number from. Im not really funny,only when im drunk people think im hilarious and that is not good. Im kinda tense around girls, and really dont keep them interested at all it seems like and fail horribly. Any techniques on getting a better personality in general? anyone have link to that ebook that was posted a while back pertaining to the "alpha male?