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  1. Spirito

    Spirito New Member

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    your best mate ditched you ? what you'll do ?

    and how do you know if he still wants to remain the friendship ?
     
  2. Toasty

    Toasty Naked people have little or no influence on societ

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    hmmm? If he ditches me...doesn't that answer your last question?
     
  3. Nightshade

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    give him this: :fawk:

    and move on ...

    :mamoru:

    seriously, who cares??

    your mate ditches you to do something ... big whoop!!

    find a new mate fool!! :o
     
  4. Bleed

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    i always thought of best friends as someone who understands and forgives. one of my friends told me, "a good friend is someone you can hang out without seeing them for months and pick up right where you left off."

    just some food for thought....
     
  5. dopeman

    dopeman ich bin ein berliner

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    same sorta thing happend to me,my best mate of about 3 years just started hanging around with the other people,who are dicks imo,so i hadnt seen him for about 1 year and we dont live in a massive city,when one saturday nite on the beers i met him in a pub,he got sick of the other lot and now we speak allot more and i see him a few times a week,if hes a true friend,he will come back,if not then :fawk: and meet new people,that helps too.
     
  6. Spiritus

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    I had a friend that did that. He just stopped communicating with me as much, didn't want to hang out. This was a couple of years ago, at the time I just said to myself "Okay, if this is how you want to be then I won't follow you like a dog on a leash, it's not worth my self respect". I hanged around my other buddies.

    After almost 2 years of not communicating with him we met up again and it was just like the good old days. He's a great guy.

    What I'm specifically trying to point out here is that you should not create negative waves when you propel away from him, because you might cross paths again.
     
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    yeah pretty much what everyone says. everyone goes off on their own every once in a while. dont get jealous of him hanging out with other people. just take it in stride and thing will work out in the end.
     
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    Not in all cases ! :x: thanks for your reply!
     
  9. Spirito

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    thats what i'm doing! ..

    i love to :fawk: . i feel arrogant :squint:
     
  10. Spirito

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    gosh! he is selfish Bastard :x:

    to me .. if this happened to me , i'll not be a standby!:greddy:
     
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    Spiritus , GENIUS !! :hs:
     
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    easy to say , hard to do !
     
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    That is a good friend.
     
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    I had a friend about a month ago just flip out and take off. We have known each other for 15 years and were best friends. He flipped out because we were all hanging out(me, my wife, him, his gf). It came out in casual conversation the we(my wife and I) had visited him a couple of week prior. Well it came out the he lied to his gf about the whole thing. She didn't care that we came to see him but that he lied and made up a huge story about it. So he sends some nasty gram over the email then calls and says he hates my wife and will never be anywhere where she is. That friendship is over and it is good because I don't need people like that in my life.
     
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    maybe it was an excuse to get rid of the whole friendship! :ugh:

    i hate fake friends ! :fawk:
     
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    Ya it does sound like he wants to get rid of the whole thing. It sucks because we have been close friends for over 15 years.

    He may be pissed to because he has expressed that he wants a relationship with my wife. So it is best that he is gone.
     
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    hehe, oh, yeah!!

    don't you love it?? :mamoru:

    how are you going with finding new friends, mate?? asked dudes out from school or work, yet?? cos there are plenty of friends to make on this planet!!

    there is an ABUNDANCE, and PLENTY to go around!!

    geez, and some people complain about being lonely!! :p

    ha ha ...

    funny way of expressing it!! :big grin:

    he hates her, but loves her!! :mamoru:
     

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