How many dates would a woman continue to date a man that she has high interest level in without having sex? I'm reading Doc Love's "The System." He says to wait 9 dates, 60 days, and only date one day a week. He advocates to be a challenge and only kiss her at the end of the date. Doc wants the woman to initiate touch. Of course he's not going to tell her the rule. Or would the woman think what's wrong with this guy and move on?