What does this girl want from me?

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  1. reallyneedmoney

    reallyneedmoney New Member

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    I met this girl about 3 months ago at work. I was training for my new job and then I noticed this pretty girl who smiles at me all the time. I didn't return the smiles at first cuz I didn't know she was smiling at me. Then she started saying hello to me and she started creating small talk with me.

    The thing is I think she has a bf already but she never mentioned him to me in any of our conversations before. One time, she did ask me why don't I have pictures of my pet on my desk and I told her I don't have one. Then she asked me why don't I have a picture of my gf on my desk and I just told her I don't have one and she just laughed. She does have a picture of her and this guy on her desk though and they're definitely not related as she is blonde and the guy is East Indian.

    Anyways, she comes up to me and talk to me every single day. We don't work together. It seems like she shows such a huge amount of interest in me. The reason why I'm saying this is b/c unlike other girls, she actually remember the things I tell her, she'l come to my desk every single day, knows my schedule even though it's different every week, and yeah she is touchy too.

    So what do you guys think? Does this girl just wanna be friends or something more. I'm unsure of this whole thing, and I do believe she has a bf so I don't wanna mess around with another guy's gf.
     
  2. Lindsay Loo

    Lindsay Loo ミ★ Mikel's POZ Partner ミ★

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    ask her.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    lol, the guy in her picture might not even be a fucking boyfriend. If you have any interest in her then fucking ask her on a date, it's not that hard.
     
  4. wocket

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    yeah, best bet is, "so you wanna go grab some dinner on Friday night?"
     
  5. Chris90210

    Chris90210 New Member

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    No friends can just grab dinner.......... He needs to be direct. He needs to ask her out on a date.
     
  6. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    Just make a light joke about her boyfriend and if she says she doesn't have one, then you know.
     
  7. konrad109

    konrad109 New Member

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    Better yet just be direct about it. After you make her laugh, just ask "so, do you have a boyfriend?"
     
  8. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    personally, i don't think dating co-workers is a good idea
     
  9. Smutty

    Smutty OT Supporter

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    Don't get your pussy where you get your paycheck.
     
  10. antihero

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    how :greddy:. Sack up and just ask her. Seriously, im sure it seems somewhat normal to you now, but you are acting like a coward. It is very easy to find out if she is available while still being respectful.
     
  11. GanglyGoodness

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    It can get pretty messy, that's for sure.
     
  12. Brian May

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    :werd:
     
  13. BradUF

    BradUF Guest

    Yeah that is true.
     
  14. Lateralus

    Lateralus New Member

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    She's obviously interested in you, just ask her out on a date.
     

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