what does "not my type mean"

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  1. fucter

    fucter crappy speller

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    When I say it, I usually mean something like 'i usually date brunettes and this girl is blonde, or i usually date irish girls and this girl is italien'. I never say shes not my type if its just an attraction thing.
    Now I've had two diffrernt gilrs in the past week say this to their freinds about me, even though we have similair freinds (same hobbies, same musical tastes etc...)
    so maybe im not hip with some new lingo or maybe they mean it the same way that I do.
    anyone else have some translatiosn for things girls say that mean something different?
     
  2. Cerridwen

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    It means they are not interested in you for whatever reason.
     
  3. fucter

    fucter crappy speller

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    See that's the thing, I would date a girl that is not my type, so when I say it, it's not a bad thing. thanks
     
  4. Cerridwen

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    I wouldn't necessarily see it as a bad thing (sorry I didn't know that is what you were asking). :)
     
  5. bandwagon

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    "Not my type" means she isn't attracted to you.
    "Not my usual type" means she is attracted to you but not really sure why.
     
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    I've said that a girl isn't my type.

    Just that her physical appearence and personality just doesn't appeal to me. Even if she's good looking, there can be certain things that just turn me off.

    EX: Bleach blonde girl who wears a lot of makeup and skimpy clothes.

    That does absolutely nothing for me, she's not my type. She's not ugly, she could be a gorgeous girl...however..."she's not my type." I would not persue her at all.

    ...

    you can also insert about 50billion different personality things in here aswell seeing as I hold that most important about a person and am pretty critical in this department. :hs:
     
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    Yea that's what it means coming from a guy, but it means something different in chickspeak. The first response (from a chick) layed out what it means in womanese.
     
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    true....


    I forgot about womanese :o
     
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    I've said this before...but...nice av :cool:
     
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    It means shes not interested in you, you fat sack of shit.
     
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    Name calling is not welcome here. Stick to the main forum if you cannot control your mouth please.
     
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    it means she has no interest in tooting on your meat flute
     
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    it means game over. its a nice way of saying they dont feel a damn thing for you
     
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    are you in the friendzone? because thats usually a "not my type for me" just because i don't like dating friends... but for me if a guy is not my type its because i didn't feel anything for him when we hung out- he's more of a "just friends kind of guy".
     
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    Its a nice form of rejection :dunno:
     
  17. Bruticus

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    I'd rather have it straight up actually.
     
  18. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Of course. It's nice for the person saying it. For every titch of indirectness, the person doing the rejecting spares their own feelings, not the feelings of the person they reject.
     
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    would you rather have...

    the truth: "you're not my type"

    or the truth:"you're not my type because Im not attract to a guy who dresses all fratty. Pink striped polo's with your plad shorts and your bleached hair just does nothing for me"

    or the truth: "you're too tall, you are too fat, you look like a creep and you need to shower because you smell like b.o."


    it's all true...you're not her type. Buttttt....one is more detailed...and the other is mean????
     
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    I think it depends on the person. I suppose it means something different for everyone. I don't really have a type so when I say it, it basically means I can't see myself dating that person. Whether it be that our personalities are really different, different views on things or just plain not attracted.
     
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    I've never said it. The closest I've come has been "you're nice and all, but nah" :dunno:
     
  22. JohnJohnJohnson

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    Of course I'd rather have the last two. I'm the kind of guy who will wonder about something if he doesn't understand it. I would want to know everything.
     
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    Pretty much means she has a lack of romantic interest or isn't attracted to you, perhaps a lack of confidence, challange, mystery etc...
     
  24. Bruticus

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    I'm exactly the same. I'd rather know stuff straight out and if you think "You're not my type" is sparing anyones feelings you're all wrong. As JohnJohn said it will only make you feel better, not the person you are rejecting "nicely".

    How will anyone feel when they get rejected, no matter how it was said? Of course theres a difference between the truth and being cruel (ie laughing at it in front of the whole school ala in movies) so there is some limit, but the whole truth for me at least, is generally best.
     
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    Oh, for me it's got nothing to do with not letting it die. In actual fact, having a vague "You're not really my type" would possibly give false hope to some guys who might not quite understand why she really gave that response. A straight out "No" would leave no false hope.
     

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