what does it really mean when a girl says shes afraid of commitment?

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  1. invids

    invids Guest

    Girl hooks up with you, says she likes you etc but still says she is afraid of commitment due to a shitty previous relationship...
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    She's just not that into you.
     
  3. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    it means that she afraid of committing because she doesn't want to get hurt again
     
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    FloppyCock New Member

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    What would you mean if you said that to somebody?
     
  5. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    She wants to fuck other people.
     
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    means the girl doesnt like you.
     
  7. just tat

    just tat New Member

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    means you can still get laid... that's about all though
     
  8. ridah626

    ridah626 OT Supporter

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    i dealt with this before. you just have to gain their trust. there is something she sees in you that she is kind of itchy about. dont try to rush anything just let things happen lol
     
  9. Falconer

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    Yes.

    No.

    edit - not usually on that last one. Usually it means she just doesn't want to commit TO YOU. Usually.
     
  10. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Normally I would agree but I assume that most of the people in here making these threads are in high school or early college so in that case she may just be scared to get into another relationship since she isn't very experienced :dunno: If you get fucked over early then it can make it hard to have a normal relationship for awhile.
     
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    I'd have to agree.

    Everyone on vag is quick to reply with "she wants to fuck other people", but truth be told... I know a lot of girls who got really hurt in a last relationship and are afraid to get close and let their guard down in a new one.

    Whether it be because the guy cheated on her, treated her poorly, messed her up emotionally, etc... It is pretty common for a girl to be afraid to open up emotionally and commit to a new guy after something like that.
    I know girls that got out of a relationship that they were hurt in YEARS AGO, and it still affects their current relationships.
     
  12. CaiWooBlue

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    any of these replies are actually realistic, i think.

    she very well cold have gone through some bad shit in a previous, or she might want to keep her options open.

    if you like her, let her know, but don't be surprised if you see her with another person one day.

    you might be the rebound guy, you never know.
     
  13. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    I don't like commitment either, so if I heard that I'd be all :h5: and maybe a little :bowdown:.

    I'd probably be glad I had found a girl who lets things happen naturally, instead of building verbal contracts around her emotions.

    Or I might fall in love with her 3 weeks later. Who knows :dunno:. Be gung ho.
     
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