SRS What does it mean when a girl says

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  1. FindersKeepers

    FindersKeepers New Member

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    To another one of her friends

    He's really cool, sweet and kind, but he lacks social skills.


    I had always had good conversations with her and so on, and there was always something to talk about???? I don't get it..


    BTW, the girl I'm dating... I'm not dating her any more.
     
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    It means that you're a nice guy (friend) but you're not dominant/confident enough in a social setting to be considered alpha male (boyfriend material).
     
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    I should have figured something a long those lines.....

    It wasn't until just this past week that I started to be more confident, I started making the decisions, rather than asking her input all the time.....

    I think thats what the problem was


    And I corrected it too late :(
     
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    Yes, decision making is a huge attractor for women.

    As is being a less ass-kissing type (i.e., buying her things, driving her places, doing whatever she asks) of guy. Have your own life, basically and don't be her servant.
     
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    I wasn't really her servant, although to some it seemed that way, I gave her space and so on

    I'm going to go be around friends and have a few drinks and keep myself from going back to old addictions... I just need to bask in all of this and let it help me grow....
     

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