What do you say when a girl starts to talk about a guy...

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  1. onedownfiveup

    onedownfiveup Active Member

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    ...she has been talking to and you start to get the feeling she's venting to you?

    I've been talking to this chick for less than a week. Haven't even had a chance to ask her out (been busy). She called me tonight and said "Why are guys assholes?" I simply asked, "What are you talking about?" Shes said, "This guy she hung out with the past few times turned into an asshole." I said, "well not all guys are assholes." We then proceeded to talk about how the week was going because I changed the subject. I didn't feel like talking about another dude. I then asked if she wanted to do something this weekend. She then said, yeah, lets kill the guy she was talking about. I laughed and said that isn't too smart. I told her to let it go and she's dwelling on it. She then asked me to find her a guy who is nice, not an asshole, and is somewhat tall and who enjoys the same things as her. I said, that's easy, I'll nominate myself. She then proceeded to tell me that I'm more of a good friend and she didn't see me in that way. I couldn't believe it. I then told her no wonder she seems to be able to only find assholes and basically that was end of that convo.
     
  2. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    friendzoned.
    don't you just love it ?
     
  3. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Friendzoned by a cocktease. She got traded in on a better model and used you to make her feel better about herself.
     
  4. onedownfiveup

    onedownfiveup Active Member

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    Yeah, I knew the second it happened I got friendzoned. LOL

    I was mostly interested in what others say when they get asked advice about what to do about another guy.

    I guess I could just have been an asshole right off the bat and told her I didn't care to talk about another dude.
     
  5. ware_ru

    ware_ru I know, I know, I'm amazing

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    gg bro. is that your girlfriend in your av?
     
  6. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    I suggest either changing the subject, or if you're really annoyed, ending the conversation or leaving.
     
  7. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: You friendzoned yourself so hard.
     
  8. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Friendzoned.

    Next she'll be calling you telling you she misses you and wants to 'hang' out.
     
  9. ldaggerl

    ldaggerl New Member

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    Yeah friendzoned hardcore, you going to help her pick out some new outfits?
     
  10. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :bowrofl: I laugh because I've been there.
     
  11. Kinks

    Kinks Sup. OT Supporter

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    Good move. If you like her don't waste your time trying to be her friend. And if she gains some new respect and attraction for you because you're not willing to be her cuddle bitch, so much the better.

    Next time she opens her mouth you should remind her that when it shuts it should be around the base of your cock.
     
  12. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    at least you know what happened to you and HOPEFULLY have moved on or accepted just being friends....
     
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  14. antihero

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  15. Abomb

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    nice ending :rofl:
     
  16. Reign

    Reign Banned

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    Bravo on the well closed out conversation. Now don't talk to her until she calls you.

    I'm betting she screwed that one dude and then he turned into an asshole after getting what he wanted.
     
  17. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    the major problem here is you are accepting her frame

    you must control the frame

    She wants to talk about other dudes so you automatically accept this frame (frame of reference).

    The major thing to realize is that this is counter-productive to your goals so you need to either change the subject, playfully bust her balls (highly recommended), or just eject politely and firmly which will send her a clear message.

    and never overlook the power of simply standing there silent and looking at her when she says something fucked up if you can't come up with a good verbal ball-buster response

    you will be shocked at the results from pulling away from her with your body language, raising an eyebrow, and saying "oooooooooookayyyyyyy" then shutting up and seeing what she does
     
  18. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    also you missed multiple opportunities to give her shit near the end when she tried to put you in the role of finding her a man

    i do like that you finally stood up for yourself at the end - well done
     
  19. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Real problem: You approached this girl with your cock tucked between your legs.

    Solution: Next time you meet a girl you want to date/fuck, approach her with a raging boner in hand. Metaphorically speaking. Or literally.
     
  20. Abomb

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    yail nailed it lol
     
  21. wolfskymoon

    wolfskymoon Guest

    Holy shit
     
  22. wolfskymoon

    wolfskymoon Guest

    n u guys break my balls? really?
     
  23. Abomb

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    uh really dude. go re-read your threads.....and then come back here and see if its in the same league as this one
     
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    You're by far worse.
     
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    just_another_on New Member

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    ^^^

    Hopeless is a better word.
     

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