Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by tpliquid, Apr 27, 2009.
explore the other person?
what type of questions do you ask? talk about random things?
just random things, I don't think most people plan it
I make it a point to let her know at least 3 times how big my dick is, tell her how much I bench 5 times and of course brag about driving my lambo with all my supermodel exgfs.
That got my panties wet.
dont you think you'd rather brag about your dead than your bench?
I KID dont eat me bro
would you rather be a vampire or werewolf? why?
shirted gym lifts ftw
all 172 pairs?
What do you have in common? Something made you decide to ask her out.
what if its a blind date?
I like to let them talk to decide if they are worth pursuing later.
srsly? If your social skills are so rusty you can't carry on a conversation with a blind date treat this date as a training exercise. A better thing to do would initiate conversations with random people on a daily basis.
I won't ask any deep questions for the first few dates, just easy going questions, like what do you do for fun or questions to gauge what we would have in common. I usually just either ask more questions or share stories based what the girl says.
Just listen to what she says and build the convo from her answers.
what they do for a living. where are they originally from. hobbies.
that. however if ur on a date with a super shy quiet person, then good luck and adapt.
Start with one comment and go on from there I never have a script.
fixed. unless ur man still does date nights, in which case, kudos to him.
I roll off the other person's energy/lack of it. If she talks alot, then I don't mind enjoying myself listening (hopefully being fascinated and not bored by her) and only interjecting when I want to and appropriately....and vice versa; though more recently, I do find myself enjoying less of me talking.
I also like to be dominated, so that may be a reason why
I make witty and topical bon mots and trenchant observations about current societal trends.
I dunno.. I'm an ass, so I tend to pick on/joke with the person a lot. Though if they start getting butt hurt about it I tend to get pissed. Definitely have walked out on a date that got pissed at me for busting her balls.
Though, I tend to know the person for a little while before we go out on a date so.... yeah. Then again... I haven't really dated for 2 1/2 years.... damn you GF...
Talk to random people a lot. Use them to train yourself to become better at socializing and develop certain techniques which helps you getting what you want, and talk to a variety of people not just a certain type of people such as hockey players or stoners.
im not sure if this is sarcastic or not in this thread.
these are the typical things to talk about. there are definitely better things, but hey, its a start
random shit though I usually mention something about reading to get a reaction. I really just cannot connect with the type that would say "oh, I don't read teehee"
ask them if they have any homework you can do for them