what do you guys talk about on dates?

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  1. tpliquid

    tpliquid Oh hi, My GF has been upgraded ^ OT Supporter

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    explore the other person?
    what type of questions do you ask? talk about random things?
     
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    just random things, I don't think most people plan it
     
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    I make it a point to let her know at least 3 times how big my dick is, tell her how much I bench 5 times and of course brag about driving my lambo with all my supermodel exgfs. :hsugh:
     
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    That got my panties wet. :mamoru:
     
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    dont you think you'd rather brag about your dead than your bench? :hsugh:



















    I KID dont eat me bro :noes:
     
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    would you rather be a vampire or werewolf? why?
     
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    :rofl: shirted gym lifts ftw
     
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    all 172 pairs? :mamoru:
     
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    What do you have in common? Something made you decide to ask her out.
     
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    tpliquid Oh hi, My GF has been upgraded ^ OT Supporter

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    what if its a blind date?
     
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    I like to let them talk to decide if they are worth pursuing later.
     
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    srsly? If your social skills are so rusty you can't carry on a conversation with a blind date treat this date as a training exercise. A better thing to do would initiate conversations with random people on a daily basis.
     
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    I won't ask any deep questions for the first few dates, just easy going questions, like what do you do for fun or questions to gauge what we would have in common. I usually just either ask more questions or share stories based what the girl says.

    Just listen to what she says and build the convo from her answers.
     
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    what they do for a living. where are they originally from. hobbies.
     
  15. Bob Brown

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    that. however if ur on a date with a super shy quiet person, then good luck and adapt.
     
  16. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Start with one comment and go on from there :dunno: I never have a script.
     
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    fixed. :mamoru: unless ur man still does date nights, in which case, kudos to him.

    I roll off the other person's energy/lack of it. If she talks alot, then I don't mind enjoying myself listening (hopefully being fascinated and not bored by her) and only interjecting when I want to and appropriately....and vice versa; though more recently, I do find myself enjoying less of me talking.

    I also like to be dominated, so that may be a reason why
     
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    I dunno.. I'm an ass, so I tend to pick on/joke with the person a lot. Though if they start getting butt hurt about it I tend to get pissed. Definitely have walked out on a date that got pissed at me for busting her balls.

    Though, I tend to know the person for a little while before we go out on a date so.... yeah. Then again... I haven't really dated for 2 1/2 years.... damn you GF...
     
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    Talk to random people a lot. Use them to train yourself to become better at socializing and develop certain techniques which helps you getting what you want, and talk to a variety of people not just a certain type of people such as hockey players or stoners.
     
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    im not sure if this is sarcastic or not in this thread.

    these are the typical things to talk about. there are definitely better things, but hey, its a start
     
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    random shit though I usually mention something about reading to get a reaction. I really just cannot connect with the type that would say "oh, I don't read teehee"
     
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    ask them if they have any homework you can do for them
     

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