As some of you know, i've been dating this vietnamese girl. Definitely a culture shock and I dont exactly know how to describe that one but she was really into me for a while. To be honest, I could just be paranoid I dont know. Before she left I was helping her get shit ready, I ended up driving her to the airport, lugging her luggage to the ticket dude (her luggage was so heavy and I didn't know I had to carry it a mile, I was sweating like crazy when we got there). I basically hanged out with her until she went through that checkpoint where only people with Tickets can go. I gave her a little kiss and said have a good trip yadda yadda and when I got to my truck she text my phone that she was got teary eyed as she watched me leave and was crying a little bit. That made me feel damn good! (Is that wrong? heh). Anyway, she's gone for 2 months, it's been a month now and things have changed a little bit. It's VERY difficult to get in contact with her via phone because for some reason the signal is garbage. There are random times it's good though, with that said.. it's been 2 weeks and I haven't talked to her on the phone once. I've texted, because we can do that but it's progressed into say.. I'll text her, and I wont hear from her. Then, one day i'll get a message saying something very random about something. When she first got to vietnam she would give me the play by play, im doing this.. im doing that.. etc.. she even told me she didn't want to be there and that she wanted to come back early (mainly I would imagine because she had a boyfreind now and wanted to be with him). Now it seems she's having a blast, maybe so much of a blast she really doesn't care to talk to me. I've tried calling her, sometimes she'll answer and i'll hear a couple words before the connection dies and i'll text her and sometimes I get a response but.. it seems maybe we're growing very far apart and I dont like it. So, what do you think? One part of me wants to say "what the fuck?" and the other wants to just.. say fuck it, and just ignore it and wait for her to get back and go from there. It's been a very long time since i've been in a relationship, I really dont like shooting from the hip on situations like this because just this morning I texted her again and thought to myself "It's been so long since i've heard this girls voice".. I hate that, I dont know what to say to her, dont know what to do. Im either going to sit around and do nothing or im going to say something and I dont want to make a mistake either way and I dont have anyone to talk to in my real life about relationship advice. I know iwishyouwerebeer is a pro on relationships and a lot of you others What do you think? p.s I think I should've made this thread earlier. The last communication I got was these Lastnight before I went to bed I text "Goodnight! Lov ya!" and then right after I got "Me too. goodnight honey". Then in the morning when I woke up (night time there for her) I got "What u doing? Call me when you have some time! Hate you heheheh". The hate you thing is an inside joke.. Anway, im rambling..