I've never been going out with a girl during her birthday... My gf's is in like 5 days. We just moved and have no money, i could put a present and dinner on my credit card. but she'd get mad because we cant spend like that. So aside from examples of what you guys actually do for their birthdays, what do you do to make them feel special. What do they even want? Just lots of attention, something planned out? you know? what are the nerves to strike? I'm usually pretty creative, but i feel a lot of pressure. shes been excited for over a month. constantly reminding me.