What do you consider "cheating"?

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  1. amac88

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    At what point would you be angry at your SO? Say they are with an opposite sex friend/coworker. Id say anything more than a friendly hug, pat on the back, etc. Things you would do with family.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    That sounds about right. Depends on what kind of family it is though. I've seen some families do shit I wouldn't want my gf to do with anyone but me. :hsugh:
     
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    I say it starts with a lip-to-lip kiss and escalates from there. Unless it's unusual for your SO to give cheek kisses
     
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    But what leads up to the kiss must also be taken into consideration.
     
  5. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    pff, you even have problem with cheek kiss?
     
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    anything more than a hug hello, a hug goodbye or a hug that lingers would be cheating to me. if physical contact more than that is desired, there are problems
     
  7. saosko

    saosko OT Supporter

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    Hell chyeah, why wouldn't I?

    There is NO reason for that shit.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Depends on the person. Some people cheek kiss everyone. I have no issue with that. If they never cheek kiss, then that's a different story. It also depends on whether it's a quick peck when saying hello or goodbye or whether they just lean over from time to time and start licking their face. :rofl:
     
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    that is absolutely true. being emotionally unfaithful is just as hurtful IMO as being physically unfaithful. for that, you have to rely on your SO to be honest with you before it gets to that point
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :werd: In that regard, I consider an SO spending time alone with someone they used to date and not telling me about it cheating.
     
  12. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    yeah, cheek kissing is normal for me.:dunno:
     
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    Anything you wouldn't openly tell your SO about could be considered cheating.
     
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    I think this is the universally accepted definition of cheating.
     
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    Fucking :werd:


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  16. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    that reminds me, not that long ago I kissed this friend of mine on cheek when we were saying goodbye, he was a bit drunk so when he wanted to kiss me back he got my neck:ugh: I felt like SHIT afterward, it was not my fault and it was not a big deal if it was because he was drunk and accidentally did that, but the idea that he might have done it on purpose was making me very mad. oh well, one lesson for me, no kiss for drunk people anymore:squint:
     
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    Id say your SO hanging out with anyone and not telling you about it, or trying to hide it would feel just as bad. Luckily I know who my fiancee hangs out with, and we usually all hang out together, so thats not a big deal.
     
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    Cockblock.
     
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    But its not MY cock being blocked.
     
  20. iwishyouwerebeer

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    Touching in a sexual way, kissing, sex, etc. etc.
     
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    Eskimo kissers are CHEATING WHORES!
     
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    Cheating is much more then physical. Actively looking for another SO is what I'd consider cheating to. You don't have to do anything but proactively going towards such an idea is cheating.
     
  23. BadKat

    BadKat GIVE ME WINE!!

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    :mamoru: Even before my SO and I decided not to be monogamous, kissing close friends (and I'm mean close, like I've known these people since HS or earlier) both guys and girls on the lips has been perfectly acceptable :dunno: None of us (okay, a couple of us :mamoru: ) in that group are gay, but none of us ever thought twice about it.

    Of course, we're also the friends that tell each other we love each other on a fairly regular basis and when we get together, it's a very interesting dynamic. It's like getting really close siblings together.

    But if you aren't close friends, I agree with MCohen - anything you wouldn't openly tell your SO about could be considered cheating.
     
  24. Viper

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    I divorced my wife based on some inappropriate emails and lying to me about going to work when she went to some guy's house. When I rolled up on the doorstep, they were fully clothed, so they weren't having sex at that time.

    That was all I needed to tell her to get the fuck out. I had no idea, at the time, whether they had done anything physical.

    My "mountain" of evidence that she had in fact done physical stuff with him came after I booted her ass out of my house.
     
  25. BoomBoomBoy

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    Anything you wouldn't do in front of your SO.
     

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