What do you consider as cheating???

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  1. VSismyheaven

    VSismyheaven Guest

    What do you consider as cheating??? State your gender and what you think...
     
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  2. jestre

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    anything above kissing your friends/family. male
     
  3. naughtie

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    ANYTHING that you are doing with someone of the opposite sex without your SO's knowledge. Even chatting online, emailing, going out to lunch, hanging out with friends and this person "happens" to be there.
    If you are not totally honest about everything, then you are hiding something. Or you will have something to hide later on. That kind of stuff only leads to bad things. You can talk with others of the opposite sex, and email go out to lunch, etc. But don't hide it.
     
  4. JohnDoe

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    if balls dont touch its not cheating according to OT
     
  5. naughtie

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    hahaha!!! Thats a good one. :rofl:
     
  6. Smoked

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    If you feel like you have to hide it, you shouldn't be doing it.
     
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    exactly what I said except much more eloquent! :)
     
  8. Muricane

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    Anything you wouldn't want to tell your partner about.
     
  9. I agree fully!
     
  10. [DWI]

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    Male. Anything you wouldn't want your SO to know about
     
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    I consider cheating anything your SO is doing that they know you wouldnt like to see them doing.
     
  12. dirtyoldman

    dirtyoldman the colonel has arrived.

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    Male, IMO Making out is the treshhold of cheating'
     
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    According to this definition I cheated on my ex.:hsd: I guess I got a little payback for her cheating on me.:noes:
     
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    male.. and I think that cheating would be anything above holding hands with another person of the opposite sex that isnt family. That includes, kisses (cheeks, lips, anywhere else), I guess hugs are ok as long as they arent longer than 10 seconds, any kind of groping, etc. Friends are included in that, because thats half the times Ive been cheated on was with a friend of theirs. Ive personally never cheated because I think it is stupid to do, and I am a lot more mature than doing shit like that.
     
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    I also agree to this... my gf talks to her exes because they were friends before and they didnt have too bad of break-ups, but she would never do anything with them again, so Im not scared. My gf also always shows me her emails, messages on Myspace, stuff like that. I never ask to see any of that stuff, but she insists that she doesnt want me to think there was something going on.:dunno:
     
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    I have to disagree with kissing on the cheek. There are a few girls I know who I kiss on the cheek when I haven't seen them in a while... its basically a 'hello'.
     
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    I completely agree! I'm female.
     
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    Thats just what I think would constitute as cheating, as I do not do such things as that. But everyone has their own opinion based on what they do/have done
     
  20. neebelung

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    Anything you would not do or say in front of your S.O., or would be ashamed/embarrassed if they learned about it.
     
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    Anything my SO would do behind my back with someone else that involves anything beyond a normal everyday friendship.

    :hsugh:
     
  22. The Green Bastard

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    As long as the balls don't touch...
     
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    not using protection. that's a no no.
     
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    Male....
     
  25. bobbarker70

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    i really cant put a certaint action on it......i think youll just know when your cheating. youll feel it insdie fo you.....or atleast you should.
     

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