I'm very curious about this. My first girlfreind/first love broke up with me about 4 months ago. I'm ready to move on now but I'm just so fucking bad at talking to girls. I don't know shit about what they want or what I need in order to establish a relationship. I've overcome my fear of talking to girls. I've approached about 5-6 really good looking girls in the last few months and have had some really good conversations and made some good connections. I've learned a lot from those. However, every time I want to take it to the next level I start thinking about my shitty situation in life and how i'm gonna get involved with this girl and she will eventually realize how shitty my life is right now. I will tell you guys these facts about myself and if you could please just tell me what I need to do: Good: Tall Good physical condition Good looking Bad: Broke Drive a shitty car Have legal problems right now Hate my family and won't bring a girl home because of it No friends of my own Am I just psyching myself out when I think to myselft that I should resolve these issues before dating someone? Or are these real issues that need to be fixed before I get myself out there? What are some problems that I'd for sure run into if I got into another relationship?