What changes did you see from when you transformed yourself?

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  1. tarheel

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    I am 21. Newly single. Dating girls is terrible. In one year I'm moving to NYC, so I'll be 22 in NYC and ready to meet new people.

    During this year, I want to transform my body. First semester - lose fat, second semester - build muscle.

    For all of you that did it, a transformation in a similar time frame as myself, what social benefits did you see from it?
     
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    improvement in the attractiveness and number of women who would throw themselves at me.

    not that it happens a lot now, but in between being fat and getting swole, there was a period where only obese chicks would hit on me at the bar. :hs:
     
  5. tarheel

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    Like an in between stage? Stocky? When did you transform yourself? Any before and after pics?

    Right now I have one chick who actively tries to talk to me, but she's average looking. I have a nice face, but I am overweight. I want to get a nice lean, muscular body. I can get dates when I pursue it, but I wouldn't say I easily attract the prettiest ones out there.
     
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    Just being in NYC improves your chances of getting dates.
     
  7. tarheel

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    Well it'll be a year from now, so I'm self-improving myself all Senior year. After then I'll be , hopefully, having a steady job and in the city so meeting people should be fun.
     
  8. Sgt. Friday

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    the only benefit I've seen is an increase in self confidence, therefore when my confidence goes up so does everything else.

    Having a better body doesn't increase the amount of women you will have, but self confidence does.
     
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  10. tarheel

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    So if you took your confidence and put it in another fat guy's body he'll get nearly the same number?
     
  11. Sgt. Friday

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    You've never seen a fat/ugly guy with a gorgeous SO?
    But we also have to be realistic too, the fat slob usually doesn't have great self confidence.
     
  12. tarheel

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    Comparably, no. Women are attracted to physical but the confidence sells. I'm sorry, but a guy in better shape has a higher chance than a guy in worse shape.
     
  13. Sgt. Friday

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    I won't argue, but its the confidence that they are attracted too
     
  14. tarheel

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    So if I go up to a complete supermodel and had great confidence, my overweightness isn't an issue?
     
  15. Sgt. Friday

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    You're giving unlikely circumstances.

    What I'm saying is, if you had more self esteem/self confidence you wouldn't have too much of a problem meeting women.

    Of course, a supermodel will shoot you down before you got 2 words out of your mouth. its a new ball game with clientele like that.
     
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    confidence
     
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    by improving yourself, youll gain more confidence which in turn makes you more attractive to woman.
     
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    confidence ++
     
  19. tarheel

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    Oh I don't have an issue meeting women, I haven't gotten a date with an 8+ yet though.
     
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    lower your standards? plenty of really nice 6-7s
     
  21. Sgt. Friday

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    ok, well if you start to build up a little self confidence, then you may get those 8+'s.

    Self confidence isn't a state of mind, its more like a way of life. How you dress, walk, talk, carry yourself, etc. Its all over and women can pick up on the slightest sense of insecurity...BELIEVE ME :rofl:
     
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    maybe your standards are too high on the looks category
     
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    Being jacked makes it slightly easier to approach chicks but you still have to open your mouth and seal the deal.
     
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    :werd:

    you have the face of a baseball glove and the personality of a pet rock don't you?
     
  25. tarheel

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    Why settle?

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    closest to an 8 I dated. We went out on two awesome dates but she was (unbenkownst to me) recently single and wasn't over her ex. Both dates she brought him up, was going to do a 3rd date by her suggestion but she cancelled and apologized and said she was way too into her ex to be fair to either of us.

    :rolleyes:
     
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