My girlfriend and I have been together for just over three years. Last year we had a daughter. Rewind to last week. The place I work has two offices, one about 25 miles from my house, the other about 48 miles away. I was hired to work at the one far away. I really needed a job and the potential was great, so I took it. I've been here almost two months. Last week my boss hired another person to work in the far away office, so I'll be going to the closer to home office from now on. I told this to my girlfriend and she was excited for me. I said to her that I was excited too, but part of me doesn't want to leave the far away office. I just started getting to know people here and I've learned how to fix almost every issue here (other office's issues are different). This office is really laid back because our president and all the chief officers are at the other office. I've become good friends with the call center manager and another manager here, so it's fun to work here. After telling her that part of me doesn't want to leave, that night she asks me if I have something going on with someone at work. Asks me a bunch of questions about who I work with and I explain everything. I assure her that I don't have any interest in anyone at work. So all week she keeps making little comments about me seeing someone at work. Her mom owns an RV so we go camping with them a lot. We went this weekend. My girlfriend went with them earlier in the week on Wednesday and I met them there on Friday. She kept getting upset with me because I wasn't calling her enough the two days she was gone. Turned it in to "You don't care." type stuff. My girl works at a local bar and they have a bike night every Tuesday night. I call her on Thursday and she tells me she has some friends from bike night coming out to the campground. I get upset with her and say "You think I have something going on at work cause I like working there and sometimes work late, but it's ok for you to give your phone number out to customers and hang out with them when I'm not there? Doesn't make much sense." She has nothing to say about it. Turns out that night it wasn't "friends", it was one guy. That night she got totally wasted (told me she only had 6 drinks) and was puking for 4-5 hours the next morning. Leaving her mother to take care of our daughter. Now Friday comes and I go up there and the whole weekend was complete hell. Every little thing was a fight with her. She would give me an attitude and yell at me for just about anything. One day it was just afternoon and I was doing a shot with her mother and stepfather and she instantly got pissed at me because "you're going to get drunk and I have to take care of our daughter." It was one shot just after lunch. The anger wasn't necessary. Another point she said that when we camp I'm always off having fun with her family while she takes care of our daughter. I said "You're keeping yourself away from the fun. Please tell me what I'm doing to stop you from having fun?" She didn't have an answer and just told me to shut up. I could go on and on with stories from this weekend, but this is too long already. I had a talk with her stepdad and he agreed with me that she was being extermely unreasonable. And I heard her mother thought the same thing though they both stayed out of everything. Last night I left the campground cause I had to work today. She told me we needed to talk when she got home and that she was going to stay with her mom for a couple days. I was completely nice to her and I asked her to please sit and think about your actions this weekend. You're trying to be so controlling over me and if I don't do what you think I should do you get pissed. I don't need another mother, I already had one. It seems like nothing I can say to her will make her sit and think about her actions. It's just always attacking me. Everyone is always wrong and she's always right. Some people act that way but after thinking they realize they might be in the wrong, but with her that NEVER EVER happens. I just don't know what to do. I'm at my wits end and there's no sitting down to have an adult conversation with her. It feels like I have to end the relationship. It's going to hurt me so much to not live with my daughter anymore but I don't know what else to do. Anyone ever deal with something like this before?