What can i do to make this work better?

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  1. nzwasp

    nzwasp New Member

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    So a bit of background about me:

    From NZ on a work visa until December in Canada.

    Situation:

    Met this chick while on vacation in the Caribbean, she lives in NYC, I hooked up with her while on vacation quite a few times, got her number etc. Recently went to see her in NYC for easter weekend and we hung out heaps and hooked up more. Turns out we really have deep feelings for each other. Heres the clincher though I live in Canada she lives in the USA, I cant get a work visa for the states, shes just started a job in new york.

    Our plan seems to be that we are going to continue as normal for the while and be single but not actively date while seeing each other every 2 months or so. Then at the end of the year move somewhere we can both work and have a relationship.

    Anyone been in this situation before?

    My current feeling towards her is even though im single I dont think anyone i know could top being with her.
     
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    ww_Crimson New Member

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    What happens in december when you can't be in Canada anymore either.
     
  3. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Whoa whoa, do't jump the gun and plan your future with her for the end of the year, that's crazy. Always put yourself first. You don't really know this girl, at least not enough to plan where end up you living and working around her :ugh:

    If you two have decided to have no attachments then it's kind of pointless if you won't even attempt meeting other women.
     
  4. nzwasp

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    In december i have no plans, so even if it doesnt work out, anywhere is better than no where.

    We talked today and decided to be single and see where it goes.
     
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    define "hooking up"
     
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