What are your views on the opposite sex smoking?

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What are you feelings on smoking in a potential mate?

  1. Turn On

    7 vote(s)
    6.3%
  2. Indifferent

    13 vote(s)
    11.6%
  3. Turn Off

    53 vote(s)
    47.3%
  4. Undatable

    39 vote(s)
    34.8%
  1. Bush77

    Bush77 New Member

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    It definitely isn't a turn on to see a girl smoking but i could handle it if i had a really strong attraction to her. If my gf of 9 months started smoking (for whatever reason...) i wouldn't dump her.
     
  2. Cerridwen

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    I wouldn't put up with it. The smell of smoke makes me incredibly nauseous. I won't even eat in a restaurant that allows smoking (even if I'm sitting in the nonsmoking section).
     
  3. kavery

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    I could never never never date a smoker, I find it to be the hugest turnoff. Luckily, my boy feels the same way, so we don't have to worry about it.
     
  4. WeRdToYoMoThA

    WeRdToYoMoThA Girlies on Standby, Waiting to say Hi

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    i meant to pick undatable :squint:
     
  5. dscallaway69

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    I don't really like it but it really depends on how much they smoke. I don't let anyone smoke in my house and don't like the smell if you go in someones house who does allow it.
     
  6. Rotate

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    It would be a turn off, but not a relationship breaker unless they were gross about it. I wouldn't allow them to smoke in my house.
     
  7. notsousual

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    Smoking makes someone undatable to me. They smell gross, they taste gross, and they are fucking up their bodies to do such a disgusting thing. That's just stupid to me. Not to mention I hate smelling like smoke, and dont want the consequences of secondhand smoke either.
     
  8. lauren

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    ive never really dated a smoker until now. it doesnt bother me at all on a day to day basis, but the long term effects kinda concern me.

    however, i have no room to talk concerning healthy habbits. he chooses lung cancer while i choose heart disease. so be it. :hs:
     
  9. marauder

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    I said turn off but smoking well the smell doesn't bother me :o
     
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    Definite turn off.
     
  11. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Undatable without a doubt. I watched two grandparents die from lung cancer (smoking related) and my dad died of a heart attack brought on by smoking-related causes. I don't need an SO who's a ticking timebomb.
     
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    for some reason i dont mind girls who smoke weed. but cigs are BLEH. total turn off and would never date them. even if they are totally hot, just makes them hidous.
     
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    My girlfriend and I both smoke, so that works out. Before we started dating, I looked for girls that smoked, so I wouldn't have to listen to bitching about me smoking.
     
  14. scholar

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    I would never date a smoker, and if my gf started smoking I would dump her. It's just something I could never put up with.
     
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    :hs:
     
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    Agreed
     
  17. Chipwich

    Chipwich Porno Mustache

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    i wouldn't care, it's their choice.
     
  18. Cerridwen

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    While it may be their choice, it DOES still affect you ;)
     
  19. If she doesn't answer her cell phone every 5 minutes, I'd GLADLY put up with smoking. The cell phone is 10000x worse
     
  20. Kinks

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    smoking turns a 10 into a 6. So unless she's a drop dead stunner to begin with smoking makes them largely undateable.
     
  21. RedVsBlue

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    My wife and I both smoked when we met, and we both quit together a few months after dating. Looking back I really dont know why I smoked...but I dont fault someone who does as long as they have respect for me and dont smoke in closed areas or right in my face.

    MOST girls around here smoke...i would say around 90%..i mean, its kentucky, thats just what people do. I am not going to judge them because around here its just family tradition.
     
  22. Pinksmartie

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    100% turnoff - I can't imagine kissing a guy who smokes :hs: I wouldn't expect anyone to kiss me if I smoked either!!
     
  23. Muad

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    I've dated smokers before, one of which everytime I kissed her tasted like an ash tray, which is definetly a turn off. The other 2 I've dated have take the time to make sure that don't kiss me until after they've done something to freshen their breath. In that case it's fairly bearable.
     
  24. RedVsBlue

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    Why, people can smoke and still not smell like smoke all the time. And all you need is a coffee mint after smoking and your breath is fine. :dunno: Sounds like a sad reason for judging someone, but finding a mate is about finding the one that is RIGHT for you, you shouldnt make concessions :bigthumb:
     
  25. Cerridwen

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    I can smell it. Maybe I'm just oversensitive to the smell, but I don't even like having smokers in my house because of the way they smell (even if they don't smoke in it). :o
    The smell never leaves your clothes. You may be able to cover up your breath with a mint, but unless you're carrying febreeze around with you all the time it definetly still smells.
    edit: I have found that the smell tends to be a lot more obvious to nonsmokers than smokers.
     
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