What are your preferences regarding PDA?

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How much PDA would you and your ideal lover engage in?

  1. not too much PDA

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  2. unlimited; as much PDA as we feel like

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  3. no PDA

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  1. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    How much PDA would your ideal partner engage in with you?

    Definitions, for the purpose of this thread, below:

    PDA = public display of affection

    affection = making out, sitting on the other person's lap, cuddling, etc.

    holding hands and sitting next to each other is not PDA.

    pecks on the lip without tongue are "very mild" PDA.
     
  2. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    one girl i got with enjoyed PDA for its own sake. :) :dunno:

    another one i got with was like a nazi about PDA... absolutely none "allowed"... hurt my feelings, in retrospect :o

    i somewhat think that if a girl is really, actually into you, she will not think about the fact that it's "PDA" or get uptight about it, she will just want to be affectionate.
     
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    PDA is pretty selfish. Nobody wants to see that shit.

    Granted, there are some PDA's that are socially acceptable (like holding hands, hugging, even cuddling up to each other, that kind of stuff), but the rest of it is just plain rude (such as making out).
     
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    Does this include public displays of sexual preference and availability?
     
  5. Guvnor

    Guvnor NYM3 and Me

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    I dont do it. I dont hold hands really unless in a crowd and I dont wanna lose her or jackoffs grabbing on her. Rarely see me making out in public....although, we sex in public places all the time. well, we used to. :rofl:
     
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    I like to see it.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    No, that is not something you need to display. It usually comes up naturally in conversation anyway.
     
  8. Viper

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    You are in the minority. ;)
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Interesting. Yeah, it's tricky not coming off like you're looking for sex, when there isn't a one-word phrase that successfully describes your relationship status. But I believe that's all been covered a different thread.
     
  10. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    I can't say that is always true, but I am like that:hs: If I am into a guy, I have no self control, I look at those arms and I need them wrapped around me. If we are around strangers I do it all the time and don't care, but if we are with a group I try not to do it too too much in case some get uncomfortable.
     
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    I'm seeing a girl who was totally against it. The first time I tried to kiss her on the train she talked about "disgusting train couples" That lasted about 3 stops. There is no stopping her now anywhere any time.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    It's only when a couple is full on making out and or touching each other in public that I :ugh:
     
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    :rofl:

    No wonder she thought that guy was gay, amirite?
     
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    I guess nobody gets what I was going for.

    But I'm not smart enough to make puns or clever remarks anymore I'm too corporate and bitter these days.

    Must be the negative attitude people in the NYC subway have.
     
  15. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Yes you are bitter, I used to like your posts before , recently you just make me :ugh: or :barf:
     
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    :bowrofl:

    :bowrofl:

    :bowdown:
     
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    I guess.

    It makes me really happy to see.
     
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    It's been a difficult year TBH.

    IRL I haven't acted differently, online I have. It's weird. I catch myself sometimes. Other times I come home from work cranky and don't care what I say.
     
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    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    Yeah you gotta clear your head.
     
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    Disgusting, I know. :eek5:

    Bit of an odd story behind that picture. Some photographer liked what we were doing. Later he introduced himself to us and sent us this pic he took. "Creepy," it could've been... but I take pictures of weird / interesting people I see on the subway myself, so :dunno:
     
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    lol you should see my Dostoevsky book collection
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    In still form it's totally fine. The question for me is how long did the makeout session go?
     
  23. JohnJohnJohnson

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    lol. seriously?

    i fear i can't say for sure. HOURS!!!!!!!

    probably not long.
     
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    see original definitions, post #1 :squint:
     
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    freckleface expose the raw nerve and get on with our lives...

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