what are the top 3 qualities that are most important to you for you to date someone??

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  1. Chau

    Chau if i wanted to kill you, i would've come in here s

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    my friend asked me this the other day and i couldn't really answer her... pretty hard for me to list my top 3. but she was able to right away off the top of her head. i had to think for a while, and still couldn't really decide on them - i dont think i really have a top 3 since other stuff can always balance it out :hs: :dunno:
     
  2. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    Is this assuming that I'm physically attracted to the person? I date people who I'm physically attracted to, feel chemistry with, and enjoy the company of.
     
  3. Kev07

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    brings out the best in me
    makes me care
    likes to please her man
    theres are qualities right? i have way more dealbreakers

    physically:
    face
    ass
    hair

    in no particular order
     
  4. DTR rex

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    Assuming I'm already attracted to her:

    1) Intelligent/opinionated/well read
    2) Sense of humor
    3) nurturing/caring
     
  5. Jacy

    Jacy red lipstick brigade

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    I thought this was about considerations for if you'd go on a date with someone rather than criteria for getting into a relationship with someone.
     
  6. drock1042

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    Assuming I am attracted to her (and vice versa): :ugh:

    -Intelligence/well read. As a huge reader I can't really become close to someone who doesn't read anything other than her email or her cellphone. I enjoy hearing about things she has read or heard about.

    -Interest in good dining/museums/some form of culture other than shopping.

    -Looks. I gotta admit it but I really can't date someone who makes me want to throw up looking at them. :barf: Got to keep yourself clean and at least some form of decent grooming (not necessarily between the legs but I am not turning that down :naughty:
     
  7. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Gets my sense of humour
    Shares the same moral code
    Freedom surrounding sex
     
  8. just_another_on

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    Honesty/ability to communicate
    Intelligence/her own opinion
    The want to succeed/goals in life
     
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    If we're talking about a relationship not casual dating..

    -Honest/genuine. Can't stand fake people.
    -Bit goofy, since I am.
    -Energetic. I like to get out of the house a lot.
     
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    fluentinsilence New Member

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    Pretty much this.
     
  11. Jacy

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    I feel like all the qualities that everyone's listing don't mean a thing if you don't have these 3 essentials. It's like the saying, "looks good on paper."
     
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  13. ForgottenSpiral

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    In general I'd say personality, looks, and location

    If you mean personality in particular then I'd say morals, beliefs and sexuality.

    If you want specific characteristics then I'd say honesty, communication and commitment. Those three alone aren't sufficient, but they are the most important.
     
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    Very important as well
     
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    He has to be laid back, share my sense of humor and sincere.
     
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    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    Honesty
     
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    1. physical attraction
    2. she must like me and i must be able to tell :hsugh:
    3. sweet/girl next door type personality
     
  18. Falconer

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    Three qualities.

    1. She must meet the criteria on my list.
    2.
    3.




    :mamoru: see what I did there?
     
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    must resist....
     
  20. Alaya

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    :rofl:
     
  21. Falconer

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    You cannot limit it to 3. I guess for an initial date, however:

    1. Looks
    2. Chemistry with me
    3. Not psycho
     
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    1. look good in a pair of jeans
    2. not nag
    3. have an above average IQ
     
  23. Falconer

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    :rofl: how bad would it be if the chick was already nagging before you guys even went on your first date :rofl:

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    lol wut? is this like top 3 to go on a date or to "date" someone"

    that would be terrible. :rofl:
     
  25. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    ^ go back and look at my post, I edited it :mamoru:
     

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