what am i suppose to say to this??

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  1. november

    november New Member

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    i dont want to be with her but i dont want to break her heart. how can i say something to get off her off my nuts without being rude.
     
  2. Suffocation

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    Tell her how you feel straight up.
     
  3. november

    november New Member

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    well shes not really asking me to be with her or anything. shes just randomly telling me how she feels. she already knows i dont want to be with her.
     
  4. Suffocation

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    So tell her that.
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Ugh. Tell her it's "you're" and then be honest and say you are flattered but you just don't want a relationship with her.

    Get over your fear of being the "bad guy." She's not going to kill herself over you, so please don't act as if anything you tell her will "break her heart" :hsugh:

    After you tell her do not hang out with her or talk to her, it'll only give her mixed signals. You can't be "friends" with someone who wants a relationship.
     
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    november New Member

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    :rofl:


    thanks. i haven't hung out with her since i told her i don't want a relationship.
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Sorry, I feel people who type that terribly need to be put in their place :mamoru:

    But seriously, you just have to be honest with her. You both will be fine in time :)
     
  8. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    just be really really nice to her for a few weeks
     
  9. spydur86

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    This works. I did this to a girl I wasn't into and it was a complete success. Call her every day, talk to her about the little things, make sure she ends the phone conversations. After awhile, she'll get sick of it, they always do.
     
  10. Tedrzz

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    I know how you feel. People who don't know the difference between "to" and "too" really really bug me.

    Grand Rapids, eh? I grew up in Kalamazoo! My brother lives in downtown GR right now. Small world!:wavey:
     
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    Actually I'm in South Haven right now, should update that. But yeah, definitely small world. Not trying to derail the thread :hs:.
     
  12. Abomb

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    tell her that she spells and writes like a 12 year old and that you think she is fucking retarded because of it.
     
  13. fray

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    "I think you're a great friend. I'll miss talking to you when I leave for the military."
     
  14. breakthesebonds

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    Yes, I agree with this quote but I'd even go so far as to add "I'm sorry we don't feel the same way about each other, I hope you find someone amazing soon- you deserve it."
     
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    Roses are red
    Violets are blue
    Life is full of options
    I choose military > you
     
  16. Vysion

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    I 2nd this idea...
     
  17. Amanda Ann

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    Wow.. talk about poor grammar and paragraph/sentence structure.. :hsugh: That would be a dealbreaker in itself and I'd have no qualms calling her out on it!
     
  18. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    More pics of girl in AV, now.
     

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