What am I getting myself into?

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  1. Orly_Yarly

    Orly_Yarly New Member

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    I'll try and make this as short as possible...

    A girl 'friend' wants to have sex... with me. We've fooled around numerous times, but no sex. Neither of us are relationship material (with one another) Just messing around.

    Pros: We're friends, she's hot, are able to mess around without it affecting our friendship, etc, etc.

    Cons: We're co-workers, I'm her boss, she's 6 years younger than me and.. wait for it.... she's still a Virgin.

    The LAST thing I want to do is, ONE: take her virginity and she regret it later, after waiting for so long, TWO: This could potentially affect our jobs as there's a no "Supervisory/Employee Interaction" policy at our job, THREE: complicate our friendship.

    I could go on and on about with details but I wanted to make this short.

    What say you? Any and all advice appreciated.

    :sadwavey:
     
  2. fray

    fray New Member

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    Would not. Too much potential for drama and sex WILL change things, especially with a virgin. If it weren't for the workplace issue, it would be less of an issue. How much do you like your job?
     
  3. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Soooooo many reasons why this is a bad idea. Don't do it. Dear god, don't don't it.
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    This literally has so much disaster written on it that I have to laugh.
     
  5. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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  6. Spaceering

    Spaceering I bite.

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    its kind of like: dont shit where you eat.

    would you do that?
     
  7. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Wow.... this is just a bad idea on SO many levels, I don't even know where to start.

    Hell, even common sense should tell you not to do this.
     
  8. macbook bro

    macbook bro Guest

    really the only concern is your job

    so... i mean... fuck her, why not
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rolleyes:

    He fucks her.
    She cries rape/sexual harassment from her "older boss."
    His life and career are over.
     
  10. MossMan813

    MossMan813 New Member

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    Why would you risk it? Lots of no-strings-attached tang out there that would be far less of a headache. Do you really want to go into work every day wondering if she's going to make life miserable for you somehow? You're thinking with the wrong head.
     
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    idesofmarch New Member

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    gotta make mistakes to learn from them. i say go for it
     
  12. macbook bro

    macbook bro Guest

    a. only if he sucks in bed
    b. whatever, you can always move
     
  13. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You clearly don't have anything in your life to be proud of
     
  14. vizyn

    vizyn New Member

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    :rofl:
     
  15. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    There are mistakes, and there are colossal, massive, epic fuck-ups. This would be one of the latter. As in, potential long term consequences if, or rather when something goes wrong.
     
  16. Falconer

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    Yeah dude, this has fail written all over it.

    If you do decide to go through with it, be sure to start a journal thread here so we can follow for the lulz.
     
  17. antihero

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    Are you able to get sex from other decent looking chicks? I mean the "smart play" would be to not have anything to do with it, but thats assuming its not going to be 6 months before the next time you get laid.

    How hard would your job be to replace?
     
  18. quamen

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    dont drop the soap
     
  19. LBFilmGuy

    LBFilmGuy LOL why u mad tho?

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    :bowrofl: @ the pros compared to the cons.

    [​IMG]
     
  20. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    :rofl:

    :werd:
     
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    shit on deborah's desk. like a BO$$
     
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    :roflw:
     
  23. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :roflw: That shit is like having a headache and taking something where one of the sideeffects is death.

    Pros: Gets rid of headache
    Cons: Diarrhea, vomiting, impotence, death, getting raped repeatedly by your father
     
  24. Silmatharien

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    get her to sign a consent form first?
     
  25. XxvODvxX

    XxvODvxX New Member

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    Make her get a new job then go for it... :bigthumb:

    If she doesn't go for that, then i say don't do it...
     

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