if any.................... ill try and make it short. friend split from his wife. they have 2 yr old twins together. issue is that she is controlling. VERY controlling. she treates him like a child and he has no say in anything. the last straw with him is that the she refuses to discipline the kids in any way..... even when they hit her/him. but she is also very controlling with what he is and is not allowed to do during everyday life. (going out w. friends, playing video games, etc..) keep in mind he is not the type to go out a lot. were talking once every 2-3 weeks. he wants her to go w. him and has baby sitters lined up but she refuses to leave the house. they had these same issues when they dated and they seeked counseling. again after they got engaged/before they got married. again after being married for 6 months. now he moved out and got his own apt. he was set on moving on but now he is telling me that they may work it out and seek counseling AGAIN. currently when he goes to see her and the kids she has her "good days and bad days". he asked me for my advice before he decided to do couseling while drunk and i told him he needs to stop it and just realize he's better w.o her and just be civil to each other for the kids. he agreed. however he must've forgoten the convo/changed his mind. would you guys just leave it alone and let him do his thing or give him the advice one more time?