This girl has been my best friend for about 5 years now, but we have never really dated. Talked about it, but never did it. I just got back from California from training with the Marines, and we have been kind of liking each other more and more since I got back a month ago. Then... a week ago...she discovers she is pregnant, and the baby's father is one of my friends. They were drunk, and she doesn't like him, and he'll be a deadbeat dad. I'm really uncomfortable with the idea of being with a girl with a baby (although her baby is due in like September, and I leave for Iraq for 10 months in June....so I won't be home until her baby is like 6 months old anyways.) The main problem is that I want children, and I would feel really uncomfortable dealing with another man's child. Especially knowing he is a piece of shit and won't ever have the money to pay for shit. Should I just say forget it and move on, or what?