OK. My friend of 25+ years' stag party is this Saturday. My girlfriend's birthday is Saturday, and in order to spend time with her I have to drive almost 200 miles after I get off work. We sort of celebrated her birthday and spend a lot of quality time together 2 weeks ago, and I gave her her gift and a card, and took her out to dinner. It was real nice. She told me to go to the stag, but kind of made me feel guilty, without saying a word, and I feel real bad now. What the hell do I do??!