..and I don't think I'm putting up a fight this time. We never got to talk to a counselor and it's kind of my fault. Though I'd still like to. I may just go by myself to get some things off my chest and hear from a third party. I've convinced her to at least stay until after Christmas. I'd like to see our daughter open gifts on Christmas morning since she's old enough now and since I'll probably never have her another Christmas morning. I just wish I could get her to see that I'm not completely at fault for this. I know I didn't help fix anything in our relationship, but I know I'm not completely responsible for everything either. But it seems like nothing I do can make her THINK about HER actions. I don't expect her to admit anything to me, but I'd just like to know she's thought about it. I've never had problems with ending relationships before. Never. Now that I have a kid with this girl it's so hard to let the relationship end. Maybe it's because my parents were together my whole life. Her's weren't since she was really young. And there were guys coming and going constantly in her mothers home.