went down on my gf for the first time

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  1. Combine

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    Yes just as the title states I went down on my gf the other night for the first time. She said she really enjoyed it. I'm looking for some tips/techniques/advice so I can better myself for next time. BTW I am young, 18 to be exact.
     
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    ask her to tell you what feels good. then do what feels good.
     
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    My girl puts me right where she wants it.
     
  4. Combine

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    ya I kept asking that and she said everything feels good so i just went with that
     
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    try watching some porn, especially the lesbian vids..those help
     
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    eat the roast beef, bite it and tear it off, they love it
     
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    Everyone likes different techniques. Pay attention to her reaction.

    Here are different things you can try:

    flick your tongue quickly back and forth on her clit

    suck on the clit

    lick the clit slowly

    stick your tongue into her vagina

    lick/suck on her clit while fingering her (this does it for me everytime, it drives me nuts and makes me cum quickly)
     
  9. Combine

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    good stuff, She hates getting fingerd for some reason tho, no idea why she likes everything else just not going in. I've tried everything too and she just doesnt like it.
     
  10. dirtyoldman

    dirtyoldman the colonel has arrived.

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    has she ever had sex? she may not be used to the feeling of something inside her vagina.

    also, maybe you're trying to finger her too soon. gotta wait til she moistens up to start insertion
     
  11. Combine

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    I defintly tease her and build her up for at least 10 minutes each time so I dont think thats it. IDK what it is, I guess differnt people just like differnt things?
     
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    I'm younger, Haha.

    Make a circular motion with your tongue around her clitoris, and if she enjoys having her clitoris stimulated, try fingering her at the same time. That feels amazing.

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    my bad, I didn't read the posts above.

    She doesn't like being fingered? Maybe it's to akward for her.

    Here's a tip to prolong pleasure- Do everything slowwwwlllllly, until she's pulling your hair or moaning or whatever she does when she wants more/faster/harder :big grin:
     
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    Dude my ex and I have banged for like over 3 years and she hates it when I finger I her too. Ive tried it many ways many speeds always with nails cut short so I know its not me. She only likes it when I am licking her clit and shes about to orgasm.
     
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    well at least I'm not the only one, I actually tried doing it again the other night and I talked with her while doing it, and she just didnt go for it.
     
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    that sucks ... in my exp., fingering is usu an easy way to a strong orgasm
     
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    for me, its all about clitoral stimulation.

    i'm not a huge fan of insertion either. my g-spot is nicely tucked away in the back, so its hard to reach and really not worth the effort.
     
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    Use your one hand on the lips and pull up gently, giving you nice access to the clitoris (obviously you gotta work up to this, women don't just want to be treated like a machine). Then you gotta work your tongue on the clitoris, especially around the edges of it, since some girls are too sensitive for hard action. I then use my other hand to tease her just around the opening, but only the first quarter inch deep or so. Keep the licking steady and don't stop, and learn to read her signals. This should drive her crazy.. but then again, all women are different.
     
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    Maybe you're fingering her too roughly and/or you're fingering her when her vagina is still dry. This will not be pleasurable.
     
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    I just got her to orgasm yesterday just by her clit and no insertion, so its not like its no workin for her she just doesnt like to be fingered
     
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    I can cum just through clitoral stimulation too but clit stimulation + fingering makes my orgasm a lot more intense and I'll cum quicker. It just depends on the person. Every girl's body is differnet. A few girls don't even like clitoral stimulation.
     

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