LGBT Well that was an interesting night..

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  1. kilian

    kilian You've got quite a treasure there in that Horadric OT Supporter

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    I'm from southern california... I've had plenty of gay friends... I'm not uninformed or ignorant, but I've just never had to deal with something like what happened last night.

    I work at a lounge in an upscale part of town in Boston and a very well known University had an event there. A huge group of kids from 18-mid 20s for some group they were all a part of.

    Pretty well mixed crowd, saw a lot of pretty lewd club behavior including a couple new ones (lesbian dancefloor manual stimulation :coolugh:) but that's all pretty standard for a club.

    Two guys approach me and ask me if there is somewhere "more private." I give them the stern no and they immediately about face and go into the bathroom... give them the benefit of the doubt and wait about 4 minutes hoping they're using the bathroom/making out or whatever.

    5 minutes pass and I go in to check but on my way in some girl taps me on the shoulder and goes "Oh my god did * go in there with *?!" I just ignore her and walk in, only to see knees on the ground in the stall. I get a manager and we kick them out, only to see the same girl as we're walking them out of the establishment.

    She then proceeds to run around the entire dancefloor: Oh my god * is gay oh my god blahblahblah... :hs:

    Not really any way else to handle that and I don't know how responsible it is to be having sex in a club stall if you're closeted but still :hs:

    It was a bit sad seeing him walk around outside... most ashamed and depressed I've ever seen someone look before. To make matters worse he left his shit inside and we were so packed we couldn't go get it, so his friends had to gather his shit and leave with him... they didn't look happy.

    Just wanted to share that somewhere with some actual meaningful responses.
     
  2. Nitwit

    Nitwit New Member

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    well ultimately he made the mistake and he has to pay for it now. That's not exactly how I'd want to be outted - on the floor of a public restroom giving someone head.......however, despite that, I feel bad for the guy. Most of us have probably been closeted at some point and he'll probably go from suicidal to happier than a pig in shit within the next 2 months. Hopefully he makes the best of it and doesn't go off the deep end.

    I once got caught with porn in my VCR after some roomates decided they would watch a movie in my room. They saw the tape with the mysterious title "Summer Camp." This was the Bel Ami flick. At the time I was deep in the closet, in fact I was even suicidal because of it, the thought of being outted at that time was devastating. However, I still managed to talk them out of believing I was gay after that one, or at least put them far enough in denial to keep them thinking I was straight for another 3 years.
     
  3. novo

    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    hahaha, they'll look back on this night in a few years and laugh
     
  4. Naturally Baked

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    theres trashy gays just like there is trashy straight people...its not like girls and guys dont have sex in bathroom stalls :dunno:
     
  5. kilian

    kilian You've got quite a treasure there in that Horadric OT Supporter

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    well yes, the sex in the stall wasn't the point of posting it, the being outted part was, just weird to be a part of that situation
     
  6. Bib-Lettuce

    Bib-Lettuce New Member

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    Girl sounds like the cunt of the story to me. You were doing your job, you didn't know their friends didn't. Aside from her it all sounded discreet aside from her. Plus you made yourself clear to them about the 'no privacy for sexy times' policy.
     
  7. D-FENS

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    Eh I can't say I feel too sorry for anybody who gets outed when they're caught sucking dick in a public bathroom.
     
  8. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    Everyone is entitled to a stupid moment every once in a while... And having sex in public restroom is definitely a stupid moment. I'd never do that (now). However, when I was in junior high school, I definitely got sucked and fucked at the (then Adventure World, now Six Flags) showers / changing area / bathroom stall... And it was hot! But wildly stupid. Never repeated the experience, as I got smarter.
     
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    He made a drunk mistake and while he probably feels like shit now he will get over it, that drunk mistake just accelerated his process.

    Now that I'm out to almost all my friends I feel AWESOME...he will feel that way soon...because now he can live his life his own ways and now he can suck some cock in his own bed rather that in a bathroom floor...I just hope he is safe about it.
     
  10. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    they still knew you were gay, hon
     
  11. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    On a completely unrelated note, I hope you're enjoying the Boston area, overall.
     

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