Well it took some time, but it finally happened

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  1. teep

    teep New Member

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    I think I'm finally over it. I was looking at some old emails and pictures, and even though I felt a little tug in my chest, it was almost nothing. It's even starting to get hard to imagine what it was like to have her around.

    What a funny experience this has been. It felt like my whole world was ending, but one day without realizing it, I just stopped thinking about it. I stopped thinking about it, and eventually I just stopped caring. It almost feels like it happened over night.

    To everyone that convinced me to cut all contact. THANK YOU. What an idiot I was... talking to her just made me feel like we were supposed to be together, which just makes everything impossible.

    I have a date with a great girl tonight that was taking care of me and my broken hand after my fight. Another one tomorrow with an old fling. And another on Friday with a girl I went to elementary school with. Then I'm off to Hawaii to chill in the sun and learn to surf for a month, and then off to Thailand to just live there and make a living doing what I love.

    I know lots of other people are going through tough times too. Hang in there and it will get better. :wavey: Overnight, I seriously went from feeling like I wanted to just walk in front of a bus to being excited to just wake up and see what the day brings.
     
  2. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Congrats. :bigthumb: Time to be balls deep in some new poon now.
     
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    hard for me to accept being happy with completely shutting my ex out of my life, but if it works for you, congrats. how long ago did you break up?
     
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    Let him get a shot at your GF, she could use some strange. :bowdown::bowdown:
     
  5. saxman

    saxman Burninating the peasants

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    I am right there with you... the past month or so has been that change for me... most of it happened over a couple day period. Honestly, one of the most helpful things to kick me in the ass and get my head straight was a thread I made in here just talking about the ridiculous shit she did and such.

    Also have a date tonight with a great girl that actually has a decent head on her shoulders. Wouldn't have been able to really do that a month ago, and now I'm extatic.
     
  6. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    You're really bitter about my lifestyle, aren't you? Did some girl cheat on you and break your little heart?
     
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    saxman Burninating the peasants

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    it's not easy, but necessary, and in the end makes things so much better. All depends on the reasons behind the break up, where the relationship was, etc. I have had ex's in the past that it was no issue, but in my last relationship that was long term, there's no possible way that keeping contact would have been healthy in any way, shape, or form.
     
  8. teep

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    it was weird... it's hard to say. it was messy with no decisive breaking point until about a month ago. but she was gone long before then.
     
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    Nah, my life is great. I just think you're a scum bag. :rofl:
     
  10. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Oh, its because you have problems getting girls and hate the fact that I can do it so easily. Its ok, lets just leave it at that.
     
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    Wow, you must be psychic! :eek4:
     
  12. teep

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    lol whats going on now?
     
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    shooto, fucking big congratulations to you man.
     
  14. teep

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    as far as proper dates go, i had an awesome first date tonight. we drank a fair amount, but ended up just talking for close to 4 hours. i gave her a little peck at the end, but i could tell she had no intentions of going home with me tonight. she's something of a good girl. i didn't push it.

    i have no problems with that, but it's too bad i'm leaving the city, more or less for good, this weekend. i would've loved to date her more seriously. exactly my type. she ran 10k before i picked her up then drank a bunch of beer and ate nachos with me. :bowdown:
     
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    badass man, what do u do for a living?
     
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    lol my kinda girl!! score
     
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    LOL, seriously! Thats awesome Shooto, grats man!

    And x2 on what you do for a job? Travelling is awesome
     
  18. formul8

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    Sometimes it takes popping the bubble around your ex.

    Like when you ears pop when getting of an airplane. POP!

    Then everything moves on and life gets better.

    I just had the same thing a few weeks ago about mine.
     
  19. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    Heading to Thailand should just make it easier. Hopefully your hand will be healed to train by the time you get there. Didn't need a pin did it?
     
  20. teep

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    thanks. i was working as a personal and muay thai trainer, but i'm just going to box for a living in Thailand for a while.

    no pin. as far as fractures go i was lucky. even the brace itself is pretty unobtrusive.


    i just need to stay strong and not get sucked into another relationship haha. that would be awful if i didn't make it there because of that...... that girl last night was pretty fucking cool though... uh oh :hsugh:
     
  21. Got that kush

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    great thing to hear, i just had a rough break up with my ex, and i cant wait for the bubble to pop.. i am away at college now and that makes it real easy.. but i just want to get over it
     

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