you may have read my previous threads where i was having problems with my wife. she now wants to separate. she says she dose not want to have to worry if she texts all day or goes out with her friends if ill be mad. well I'm heartbroken she says she want to work on us but basically in her own way. she says she wants to be married but single not seeking anyone and if anyone comes her way shes not going to talk to them . If I do want a divorce she wants me to wait until she goes into the air force. i don't know what to do i feel lost.