Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by ElChupacabra, Oct 8, 2007.
Divorce was granted about an hour ago. Just thought I'd say...
Good luck!!! It is never easy with kids involved and it will keep you on your toes.
so, how do you feel?
how long were you married?
What happened with that crazy little girl?
I never know what to say in situations like this. I hope it works out for the best!
Well, we have 2 kids, 12 (b) and 16 (g), and I have them. We are joint managing conservators, but I am the primary which means I get to decide where they live. She pays me child support and for their insurance which I provide.
What happened? I can't rightly say. She has been a victim all her life and finds the worst in everything. At this point, she is drinking a fifth of whiskey every two days and smoking 2-3 packs of cigarettes a day. She knows she made the wrong choice, and she can't stand it. Down side for her is, she's not going to be proven wrong. After 3 years of being apart and no sex (the 6 months we lived together last year, she had no problem walking around the apartment in a thong and bra, or the 2 months after her car wreck, she had no problem getting buck naked for me to give her 2 hour massages even though she had no interest in sex...).
At any rate, I'm done being her door mat. I may have waited six months too long to file (I wanted her to file so she couldn't say I divorced her) because the girl I want to ask out has a boyfriend now.
Oh, and it went against everything in me to do it, because I said for better or worse, and I meant it. She just gave up and pushed me out.
If you can tell yourself you did all you could, then well, it is for the better. I'm sure you let her know the situation, the likable outcome, and the "what if". You did your part, don't look back.
Good luck man, I'm sure you'll be fine.
At least you stuck around for as long as you did and tried everything you could to make it work... sometimes people just change (for the worse) and they just don't want to change back... It is a sad reality of life.
Best of luck with your future adventures and hopefully your ex-wife can get her act together for the children.
seems like the divorce was needed
good luck to you though
i dont know what to say... congrats or sorry this shit happened
That is the biggest load of bullshit when there are kids involved. I am a product of parents that stayed together basically for the kids because they took a vow. And I know that everyone says their family is fucked up, but my entire family is at war with each other member. Except me, everyone loves me
But honestly, a lot less damage would have been done if my parents would have actually used their heads and divorced when I was a kid (instead of me and my siblings growing up and telling my parents they need to divorce ASAP-which they did).
People do get divorced to easily it seems, however lots of people stay together that shouldn't and create unhealthy enviroments for their children to
People divorce way too easily now. People expect instant gratification and expect love to be perfect and require no work. That is total bullshit.
Just the same though, some couples just "need" to get divorced and staying together can actually do MORE damage to the family than seperating. Some people get married too soon/too young and others have a s/o change in a way that makes retaining the relationship hard... Sometimes it is just better to cut the string if all other options have been exhausted.