to my bf and we were talking about our fantasies and things we'd like to do etc. so i dunno if this is the right forum but: he told me he would like to "watch me doing it". im sure you know what im talking about. anyway, i wouldnt mind to get myself off in front of him... its supposed to be his bday present... among other things. lol. but... i dunno how to explain... well i dont have any real ideas how to get started and stuff. like... should i let him sit down somewhere and just let him watch and go at it. or should i let him "help" me etc... but the main thing is "how to get started"... i mean when you have sex, you usually start with kissing, touching... and so on. i need some ideas!!! help!