SRS Well, I have been quite used to the idea till now...

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  1. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Well, let's just say that I was a very shy person before and realized my problem and improved myself. Now, I am not even a shadow of what I was before but I am stomped with another problem; women.

    In all my life I've had only one girlfriend and it wasn't serious. I am not even the type that puts "the pussy on a pedestal". As a matter of fact, that is one of the things I avoid at first. I think cold and worry about my action instead of getting dreamy.

    However, for the sake of my sanity, I can't seem to end up with girls that I am truly attracted to. Instead, I get paired up with the ugly girls. Fuck that, I don't know if it is my problem or something that just happens, but whenever I go for a girl I really want, it either doesn't work or she has a bf.

    I've gone with several girls and even kissed on the date, but nothing has evolved from that.

    Seriously, what the fuck.

    I know I can't think the worst of it because there are people that have terminal illnesses and have worse problems but fuck, it is not like I should just accept my problem and live with it. :sadwavey:
     
  2. tenxia

    tenxia OT Supporter

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    I've had the worst luck myself. It's usually one of three situations:

    - I like girl, girl doesn't like me
    - Girl likes me, I don't like girl
    - I like girl, she has a bf (doesn't matter if she likes me or not)
     
  3. forgotmyname

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    Yes, I consider myself an attractive guys. I do get stares from attractive women.

    Take this girl for example. I met her in one of my classes last semester. I caught her eyeing at me. Next class I sat next to her, and slowly started getting comfortable with her. I got her number, but nothing happened after that. She told me she had a bf.

    This other girl I went out with. Before the date was over, she was already asking about where to go the next time. Everything seemed well, then I kissed her. Never got a call back from her.:sadwavey:
     
  4. forgotmyname

    forgotmyname Active Member

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    Same case.
     
  5. rYu

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    those 'stares' that you are talking about might be "who is this ugly fool" stare.
     
  6. schmitty101

    schmitty101 You might remember me from such films as "Dig your

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    Bro i'm the same way. I'm a good looking 21 year old guy who'se never had it easy with good looking girls. I can reel in the 7-8's if I try, but ultimately I only want the great looking girls. However, I have the hardest time getting em. I don't know what the problem is either. I guess at this age you just need confidence. Your looks will only get you so far.
     

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