LGBT Well, after 6 years and 8 months, it looks like my relationship is over

Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by Sam Gamgee, Aug 16, 2005.

  1. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    :wtc:

    He said that he's not in love with me anymore and can't give me what I need in a relationship (affection, love, etc.)

    It's interesting watching my life go to complete shit. :sadwavey:
     
  2. Wolf

    Wolf No one plans to take the path that brings you lowe

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    Jamien Sabotage. Overthrow. Disobey and Demolish.

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    MapleLeaf New Member

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    Sam, I am sorry. Like you I have had a long-term relationship break apart (5+ years). It is very painful and not something I want to go through again, but sadly may again in the future.

    In time you will begin to feel better, you will realise your life has not gone to shit. In time you will heal and get back to being Sam.

    I will keep you in my prayers.

    Hugs
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  5. BlondieAMC

    BlondieAMC New Member

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    Truly sorry :hugot:
     
  6. RyRy

    RyRy Active Member

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    I'm soooo sorry! :hugot:

    I went thru this over a month ago so be prepared for some hell, and know that we here at OT are here for you! :hugot:
     
  7. CrackSeed

    CrackSeed OT Supporter

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    Esp69st Who's talking about OIL... bitch you cooking

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    sorry man.... but that's life.

    NOTHING LAST FOREVER... that's one thing I learned in life.
     
  9. coma

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    That's too bad. Yours was the only LTR on here that I could think of.
     
  10. AstroGirl

    AstroGirl If I don't respond it's because I have severe ADD

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    Oh I am so sorry to hear about that. I just lost mine too :( But we weren't together for that long. If you need to talk I am here!

    :hug:
     
  11. IMJ

    IMJ The Bitch

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    awe :( so sorry to hear but you will get through this

    :hug:
     
  12. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    SAM!!! Im soooo Sorry, if you need anyone to talk to, feel free to call, if you need my number again PM me....What can I say or do? Just let me know. Im here for ya big guy.
     
  13. CoCo

    CoCo ...is a Queer Don!! OT Supporter

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    O.M.G. Your relationship was what made me even consider this thing with Matt... I cannot believe that after that long, it's just over. A lot has been going on in my life that I haven't posted yet (until I have an 'ending'), and this situation with you makes me pause. Oh, Sam...
     
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    Sam, sorry to hear that, man. Keep your head up though and remember that everything happens for a reason. Something else/better will come along soon and this whole thing will be just another chapter in your life.

    Good luck, buddy
     
  15. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Thanks all :(

    We were certainly having rough times over the past six to eight months... We really were not doing well...

    But, last month we decided to try again to make things work... I guess he just decided it wasn't worth the work...

    I suggested counseling... but he said it won't help anything...

    So, I guess if he's not willing to make it work, the only answer is to split up our shit and go our own way... :(

    Thanks for your support, though...
    :hs:
     
  16. ExDelayed

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    Sam I am so sorry. :wtc:
     
  17. spiffy_badrock

    spiffy_badrock I'm sorry, if you were right, I'd agree with you.

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    Theres always a spare bed here in my place for you Sam!
     
  18. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    Thanks Tony

    You're a good friend and a good man... :kiss:
     
  19. RenaultFreak

    RenaultFreak OMG

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    that fucking sucks as I saw your relationship the example to follow for those in the same train...however this is when you need your friends the most, partners come and go but friends are forever, we are here for ya :)

    What's going to happen to your new house and all that? :sad2:
     
  20. sholnay

    sholnay New Member

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    I'm very sorry Sam.
     
  21. bioyuki

    bioyuki Ich habe Angst

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    Holy shit. :hs:

    I know you'll get through this Chris, be strong :hug:
     
  22. cedric

    cedric I don't have a contract

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    sorry to hear that :hugot:
     
  23. Sonic

    Sonic Live every day to the fullest, for yesterday is go

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    What horrible news.:wtc:
     
  24. NOVAJock

    NOVAJock Modded & Underrated

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    :wtc: Jesus Chris. I'm so sorry.

    I called you last week and left a message on your cell, but hadn't heard back from you.

    If you want to get away, and need a place to crash, you're welcome to stay at my house Chris. I have an extra bedroom and I'm only 5 minutes from where you work.

    Other than bartending Friday night 4-7pm, and a housewarming party that me, and all of my friends are going to this coming Saturday, I am around. You're welcome to come with us if you'd like.

    Lee is coming down from Vermont and staying with me either Thursday night, or Friday night through the weekend, but regardless, you're welcome to stay with me whenever you want.

    I am around tomorrow and Thursday. I'm planning on going to the gym early tomorrow and then maybe to Ogunquit to lay on the beach. I may repeat this Thursday. Why don't you come with me???

    Call me and lets make plans to get together and talk....please.:hs:
     
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    i am so sorry to hear :hug:
     

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