My wife met some new friends last weekend. One of them happens to be a nanny, so the 2 of them decided to take my kids and the nanny's kids that she watches out together during the day, which I thought was fine. The nanny and her children decide to have a sleep over with the kids, which I still thought was fine. (a little side note, I work nights and I get home around 7-7:30am.) When I get home the frickin nanny is sleeping in my bed. Fully clothed and my wife is there too, again fully clothed. Both sleeping on the opposite sides of the bed. My wife didn't think anything of it since apparently she used to let her friends sleep in it all the time when I wasn't there. So I get a little upset, go down stairs, grab a beer, and then the nanny and my wife get up and come down stairs and ask if I can move so the nanny can sleep on the couch that I was sitting on. I got up and my wife and I went to bed. I told my wife that I don't want to see some strange chick in my bed ever again. Especially one that she has known for less than a week. Now the next day, the nanny takes her children back to their parents and comes back to my house. My wife and her talk all night, play you don't know jack, and hang out with my neighbors. And the nanny ends up staying the night again. This time down stairs on the couch. So atleast they took me seriously on that note. When I get home in the morning I tell my wife that I don't trust this nanny chick and that I don't want her staying the night anymore. My wife says fine ok. The next day the nanny and my wife go clothes shopping, took my kids with them cause I had to go to work. I get to work and end up texting my wife around 8:30pm just to talk and see what she bought for clothes. I text her again later around 1am cause I was bored at work and she tells me that she has a migraine and is trying to go to sleep. I ask her if she'd been drinking and she said no, that she took some tylenol pm. Which I thought was normal. She has trouble sleeping when I'm working. So I ask her if the nanny left. i guess she said yeah, but with the rest of her text message it didn't sound like an answer to my question, so I asked her what time that she left, she told me that she read the kids a book before they went to bed, and they got back from shopping around 9pm so I was guessing around 9:30 - 10pm. SO I ask her a 3rd time, is she gone or is she staying again? She text me back saying Gone ok. So along with this little span of questions she asked me to get some bread and some juice before I come home, which is not that big of a deal. So I'm on my way home and get a few miles from my house and who do I pass? That fucking nanny chick! I didn't bother going to the store. I went in to my house and yelled at my wife, what the hell is going on? Why did she lie about her staying the night? and I also said something about her cheating on me. She says that she didn't tell me because she knew I would get upset (good guess) and that nothing is going on with her, she would never cheat on me (which I do believe), she also says that she told the nanny chick to leave because I would get upset and that if she got caught staying the night that they couldn't be friends anymore, and she stayed anyways. So was I wrong in anything that I did? Was I wrong to get upset? I know most guys would love to see 2 women in their bed but I think it was more that it was some chick that I don't know very well. I trust my wife (but its gonna be a little hard to now that she lied to me.) And I know that she would never cheat on me. But who wouldn't think somethings not right when the same chick is staying at their house 3 nights in a row? And then to be lied to when she stayed after being told not too. What do you all think?