Weird Situation with GF, need help....

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  1. z33

    z33 New Member

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    Hey guys,

    I'm havin a little trouble tryin to figure out what to do, I've been dating this girl for about 3 weeks now, everything has been going great until last night, when we were on the way back to her house she started talking about religion and how it was a big part of her life, I basically said it was cool and I support her fully but then she asked me about my religious background which is basically very little and of a different religion, When I told her that, she got very quiet and upset and started acting very strangly towards me, almost like she was a completely different person, she then began to go on talking about how a strong religious background was something she looks for in a guy. So as it stands right now, I havnt talked to her since last night and I just dont know how to react to this, something like this has never happened to me before, it almost makes me want to end it

    Any suggestions?
     
  2. Abomb

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    honestly, your gf is a religious nut. Shes fucking crazy and obsessed with religion. Religion is for the weak minded anyways who fear the future, especially post death.

    Dump and run. Thats fucking bullshit.
     
  3. TomBrady

    TomBrady New Member

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    YEAH YOUR GF IS CRAZY
    sorry
     
  4. mandarin orange

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    stupid bitch. move on
     
  5. Abomb

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    hey before you dump her tell her religion is for the weak minded
     
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    well if i was you id fuck with her a little bit first, tell her ur satanic or something. but yah shes a nut man sry
     
  7. Kinks

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    IDB, spin her around 3 times and push her out the door.
     
  8. KaoS

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    move along.
     
  9. PocoDiablo

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    Geez, been there, done that. If she is going to hold it against you that you don't believe in some flying spaghetti monster I would recommend you pack it up.

    I tried to work THREE of those women situations, and never could compete. I could tell you some stupid horror stories (getting baptized, parents would not have been allowed to the wedding, chick cheated on me 12 times) blah blah blah.

    I'll never date someone that narrow minded. If she was a truly god loving woman, she would accept you for who you are regardless of your faith (or lack thereof.) She's been brainwashed, and it likely won't get better.

    You've been warned.

    I'd dump her.
     
  10. MattThom01

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    Translation: You don't have what I want in a guy.

    It's a lifestyle/commonality thing. She wants someone who has similar beliefs...heck, we all want that.

    She's not interested in you anymore because you don't share something that she thinks is important.

    Don't take it personally.
     
  11. Guerilla Grower

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    Save yourself time, pack up and move on.
     
  12. Nullius

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    agreed, not your fault. if you don't end up talking to her any time soon, wait till she calls you. i'd bring up the issue immediately seeing as how it'd be an excercise in futility if she's not going to get over your differences. if she has any hesitation at all (and you can tell) then peace out (do it respectfully, no need in making an enemy, you've only been going out 3 weeks).
     
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    Yeah dude, get out.

    It's done. She's fixated on having someone of "equal beliefs" for whatever reason, and she doesn't see you on the same plane.

    If you don't get out, it's a recipe for disaster in the future.
     
  14. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    When people take shit like that so seriously it's just never going to work out unless you fit her ideals...just move on while you have a shot dude
     
  15. Whew

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    What you need to do is express how YOU feel about i. Obviously you care about her BUT shes already your girlfriend and you didnt know these thigns about eachother before? wtf how long did you guys kno eachother beforehand? friendship first FTW
     
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    1. DIAF and /yourself until you can open up your brain a little

    2. To the OP: Don't fight it, just move on and qualify your potential relationships before the 3-week point.
     
  17. Abomb

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    rofl ok bandwagon, technically you could say believing in a religion is being close minded .. and she IS a religious nut so :fawk:
     
  18. donpisto

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    I have to agree with everyone else....the part where you said she is acting strangely towards you and where she told you a strong religious background is what she is looking for is key. im sure she likes you but she wants and needs a religious guy to be with. it may be tough cos you like her but you cant force someone to change something like that or even try working on it...religious is a touchy subject as well...if it was a habit or behavior, then maybe that could be worked on but i dont think this is somethin that can be worked on. sorry man.
     

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