a buddy of mine just asked me for my opinion. he has been dating his girl for 3 yrs. over the past 2 yrs his gf has put on gradual weight. to the point now that he no longer finds her attractive. he has tried the following approaches... bought himself and her a gym memebership. no dedication from her. bought a his/her bike. she does not use it. stopped eating "bad" foods around her so that she is not tempted during a few failed diets. well... he has come to the point that he no longer finds her attractive and has no interest in sleeping w. her. he has thought about breaking it off. i told him he did everything he could do and that he should dump her. he does not want to come across as being superficial or look like an asshole. i see nothing wrong w. it... he tried all he could and she does not care enough about herself or him to change. what do you guys think?