FRK Watching Porn Advice

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  1. Boyle

    Boyle New Member

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    My other half mentioned us laying some blankets down in our living room and watching some movies, I joked around and said how about some porn movies. Her reaction was not of disgust or anything so I inquired if she would give it a shot. She said Yes.

    Now my dilemma is what kind do I start off with. I do not want to instantly freak her out and ruin this.

    Any advice? Possibly someone who has been in my position before?

    Oh and we have been together for over 7 years so im completely comfortable with her.
     
  2. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    Start out with some basic, softcore stuff and if she's into it, suggest more hardcore things.
     
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    Tell her you're up for whatever she's into and ask if she has any suggestions?
     
  4. TigreTek

    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    have her pick out the porn.
     
  5. Boyle

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    She knows I look at it.... Kinda a don't ask don't tell policy, except for the famous porns. Like Paris Hilton, Tommy Lee/anderson and all famous peoples.

    She does not know the types, or in depth though so I am being very careful of what I want to expose her to.
     
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    I hear Backdoor Sluts 9 has some really good sound and editing
     
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    I'm a girl and I think I watch porn like a man....:mamoru:

    In relationships I actually like to discuss what kind of porn they watch, it kinda gives insight to a person; like amateur, anal, vanilla, whatever.

    Plus it always makes for interesting convo, and most guys are like...:eek3: you watch porn?!

    I thought that more girls are open to watching porn themselves these days :dunno:
     
  8. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    More are open than Earlier in history, but it's still not a majority....
     
  9. razi

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    Here's your answer.
     
  10. Timer

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    Let her find one that is interesting so that if it backfires it won't be your bad. I think "Pirates" is a solid choice because it's epic with some nice sex.
     
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    Error: Pirates do not have sex. This is why vikings are ten times cooler.
     
  12. Flaxamaxer

    Flaxamaxer Death2You

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    Is 2Girls1Cup on DVD yet?
     
  13. T0mmy

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    I can send you one.

    a copy.
     
  14. Flaxamaxer

    Flaxamaxer Death2You

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    The 'porn is bad for a relationship' thing is played and shared only by the un-laid. Why hide 'vices'? Being unhappy and unfulfilled sexually in a relationship is much more dangerous than locking down with someone you're afraid to be yourself around.
     
  15. Boyle

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    Well it went amazingly well.

    She knew I had some porn on my computer, I never hid it. She would pause my downloads often to use the pc and you can't help but see the titles lol.

    I threw some reality porn on and she laughed about it a little bit. Made some random comments that the chicks moaning was so fake.

    We were a bit too busy to really watch it but for a first time having porn on it went great.


    I guess there is also this book out a couple wrote about having sex every day for 101 days and how it brought them closer.... she mentioned us trying it and as a typical man I was ecstatic. It presents the challenges of finding time to do it when you both work a busy schedule.
     
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    Pirates & Dream Quest... good choices for women who don't know what they like in porn.
     
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    . take it slow at first or maybe ask her what kind she is into (if shes into any at all)
     
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    I've heard of this book, I think they said it makes them want it more, but on the girls view, she realized that its ultimately quality over quantity. (i think this is the same book, or another book with the same dealy)
     
  19. Boyle

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    Thank you ALL for the great advice and titles. I will be looking them up right now.

    I realistically do not expect to succeed in the 101 days straight sex. With 2 kids, work, and a home to upkeep it would be quite the feat if we could accomplish it though.
     
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    Yeah I definitely recommend Pirates, this isn't one of my more normal activities but a mate and I once ended up watching Pirates with about 10 girls. They enjoyed it as much as we did.
     
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    :dunno: I watched Pirates recently...and didn't really like it. Almost too much corny story-line between the sex scenes, the sex scenes were oddly edited...kiss, kiss, BAM!, nakedness and pussy licking.

    But then again, my favorite naughty movie is "Fashionistas", so I'm kinda spoiled. I watch regular porn wonder why nobody is getting spanked. :naughty:
     
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    And actually maintains a plotline... and for the record, Evan Stone is the best Pirate Hunter in the world... :bowrofl: if anything she'll get a kick out of it. Evan Stone could have been a comedic actor... well, if he could act anyhow.
     
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    I didn't really care for Pirates either actually. I would have to agree that it was TOO corny and the sex was...meh. Now, granted, this movie is forever ruined because I thought it would be a good idea to watch it with the wife and two of our female play partners....you know :naughty:

    Well.....that SO did NOT happen. They just spent the time making fun of it and pointed out stupid things and coming up with names for everyone (Amazon Girl; Screaming Girl, Saggy Balls Guy, etc)
     
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    It's the only "big budget" porn i own, and to be honest i love it... not so much for the sex, but more for the fact that it's damn funny. Second only to Deep Throat, (which is also a fucking riot.) While it's not the best porn, per se, it is good in it's own right.
     

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