This has been the core problem of my stress for the past month of my life. Especially for my girlfriend. I originally was planning on getting her a spa treatment or a trip somewhere. Only place to go would be out of the country, but I cant during xmas (since i have to be with family) and she doesnt have a passport. Spa, i figured she didnt want to go herself, nor did i feel like spending $300 on one of her friends. I personally dont like random people massaging me so I dont care for them. So I went with the next best thing (in my opinion) which was all the DVD shows that she wanted to watch. So I got her How I met your mother (all season) and ROme (all seasons). She got mad at me and said, "DVDs!?! Thats what you get your friends. Not girlfriend!" WTF? So now I'm sitting her contemplating a makeup gift....but I've been thinking and I'm pretty over this at this point.