FRK Wanting to share my GF with another while I watch - anything I should know?

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  1. sabin8401

    sabin8401 New Member

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    Hi guys.

    So I've been with this girl for about 2 years, and we are thinking about branching out by letting her fuck another guy while I watch.

    I've never done this kinda thing before, so is there any advice I could get from those more experienced in this area? I'm not quite sure why the thought of this turns me on so much, but it just does.

    We have both agreed that it shouldn't be with anyone either of us know and, of course, we will meet with this guy beforehand to make sure he's not a psycho/serial killer/etc. (DD free, and condoms of course).
     
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    Yea Sociopath!!!!!! :mamoru:
     
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    How will you feel about another guy (mostly unknown) being balls deep in your GF of 2 years?

    How does your GF feel about this?
     
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    and... once you have read through that thread, feel free to ask questions of any of the contributors. Most of us are happy to take it to PM if you'd rather.
     
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    Like I said, the thought is a turn-on for me but it obviously hasn't been played out...yet :mamoru:

    She is open to this for sure - excited, even.

    ibshesbeencheatingonyouforthelast2years :fawk:
     
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    Oh, and thank you for the link to that thread - it was very helpful!
     
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    My wife (of 10 years) and I have played around with this scenario in the past and are thinking of doing it again. It started out a few years ago when we had a MMF 3some and I just sat back and watched for a while. It was a lot of fun.
     
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    the thought of this turns me on as well but i have a feeling in the middle of it id be knocking someone out :o
     
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    Well that's definitely a concern. I have to admit I wasn't entirely sure how I'd feel about it either but I guess you can't be 100% certain the first time you try something.

    People always say "make sure the rules are already in place" before something like this. It's absolutely true. My main rule was no kissing between them. After a couple sessions I relented and pulled that rule down and everyone had a grand time. The point is...rules can be changed or removed but it's best to have them in place beforehand.

    Also, the other guy has to have the right personality. You can't get someone that's going to try to take the whole thing over. He has to understand that what you (or her) say goes.
     
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    Where were you hiding when we were putting the EDU together? :squint:...:mamoru:

    If you'd like to add to it, I think I can still edit your contribution in :wavey:
     
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    I only come in here once in a while. I don't read the EDUs because I don't usually need them ;)
     
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    Then you need to be kind and help out the n00bs :naughty:
     
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    I would also like to point out that while yes indeed rules can be changed. Its not a good idea to change them on the fly.

    THIS IS JUST A EXAMPLE I HAE NO IDEA IF YOU OR YOUR GIRL WOULD DO THIS!!

    For example, you and wife agree that dude can eat her out and get a blowjob from her while you watch the first time.

    In the heat of the moment you decide it would be totally awsome if he was plowing her doggy, you voice this she and him agree.

    In the heat of the moment it sounds like an excellent idea and everyone agreed. No harm no foul right?

    WRONG

    I think its always best to discuss rules while everyone is sober(ish) and definatly not horny.

    This way your hormones don't make a decision you normally wouldn't have.
    Just a FYI

    YMMV
     

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