Want to get back with Ex

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  1. Brimstone213

    Brimstone213 New Member

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    So ive know her since the 4th grade lol. were both 18 now. We started to go out mid summer and once school hit, she decided to want to take a break cuz school and work was stressful for her. She gets stressed out easily. She said that its hard to continue to care for someone when theres so much stuff thats going on. Aside from my rambling, i rly do still care for her and im wondering if theres any way to get beck together. we took a break 2 weeks ago but she said that its unlikely that she would get back into the relationship again.

    i was thinking that id give her space for a month or so and just ask her out on a small date, nothing big, just coffee.

    what do you guys/girls think?

    ty :)

    P.S. sorry if its jumbled lol
     
  2. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    what's the point ?
     
  3. Ford4Life

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    It's hard to care about somebody because of stress? She sounds like a flake.

    Spare yourself the misery and move on, find another girl.
     
  4. Brimstone213

    Brimstone213 New Member

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    the point is that weve always been best friends. and i still have feelings and care for her... why end a relationship cuz of school/work.
     
  5. Brimstone213

    Brimstone213 New Member

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    3 days into school and bam...
     
  6. Thelonius

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    Sounds like she just stopped feeling it and tried to let you down gently. Go out with your friends, meet other women, don't sit at home thinking about it.
     
  7. gkremian

    gkremian New Member

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    If she wanted to be with you, she would want you by her side to help her deal with the stress. She claims she's too stressed to be in a relationship but what she is really saying is that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. It's in your best interest, and her's as well, to move on to someone else. You're fooling yourself if you give yourself the hope or idea that you'll get back together with her after she told you she was "too stressed."
     
  8. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    you are 18. Why do you want to be with a girl that doesnt want to be with you?
     
  9. Viper

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    Yeah, I'd give her about a month's space and then do exactly what you were thinking.
     
  10. jonno

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    time to move on.
     
  11. Mugen92GS-R

    Mugen92GS-R New Member

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    The "reason" doesn't matter. She's told you she doesn't want to be with you, and she told you she doesn't want to get back together with you. Move on bro.
     
  12. Sirian

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    Best of luck to you, let me know how it works out.
     
  13. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    So wait...

    You're going to try and convince her to date you after she said she wasnt ready for a relationship?


    Am I the only one who think thats a little obsessive?
     

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