FRK Want to buy stuff for the GF and I....

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Martin Atchet, Dec 19, 2006.

  1. But I think I would feel pretty embarassed to walk into a sextoy shop. Can't have it delivered because of parents.

    I don't know I will probably do it.

    Whats a good thing to get for a beginner though?
     
  2. ShoverBot

    ShoverBot OT Supporter

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    just go to the shop, go later at night, park in the back, and once your inside the people wont judge you, hell they work there
     
  3. OakleyTodd

    OakleyTodd New Member

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    Think of it this way, when you go there, no one will know you, and you will never see them ever again, so who cares what they think. Besides, they are there for the same reason!
     
  4. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    No one in sex shops cares. They are there too. Them judging you would be like them judging themselves.

    Now when you come home and your mom goes "What did you get at the store honey?" Is when you gotta worry. lol
     
  5. Haha! I think I'll be ok I'm just at home now because I'm back from college during break.

    Any ideas on whats good for a couple of beginners? I don't want to get some giant dildo and then have her never enjoy my normal piece anymore haha.
     
  6. Dominion

    Dominion I believe you have my stapler.

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    I used to be pretty nervous going into the sexshop here, then they started greeting me by name :p
     
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    bigboostdsm New Member

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    I still live at home and I had 3 packages delivered here, the parents were none the wiser. I ordered from adam and eve, and there's no sender on their packages, just an address.

    Or you could just get over it and go to a sex shop. The people that work there are always super friendly and kind and they generally know A LOT about the products. I had one lady go through and explain to me the pros and con's of every dildo they had at the time. Very interesting conversation to say the least.
     
  8. VulgarTheClown

    VulgarTheClown A child and a gun.....go together like apple pie a

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    If you are getting a dildo get soemthing similar in size to yourself (unless of course your girl wants something bigger or smaller) A similar size to you is beneficial cause you knwo it will fit where it needs to fit.

    A butt plug trainer kit is always good!
     
  9. IslanderOffRoad

    IslanderOffRoad Do you even lift kit? OT Supporter

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    Its always intimidating going in the shop the first time, but once you get over that its easy. There's alot of local shops (here anyway) that are trying to get away from the seedy/dirty images people have, and most generally cater to couples.
     
  10. Cobber

    Cobber Wanna touch my bunny hole?

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    just a funny story ...

    There is a vacuum cleaner place right beside the porn/toy shop in my town (side by side in a plaza). My mother in law was having trouble with her vacuum and was taking it into the repair place ... well the porn place was having trouble with the land lord and the local news was doing a story on the shop. They were set up out front getting some stock footage for the news that night. My MIL walked out of the vacuum shop looking through her purse for her credit card (not paying attention to the camera) and paused infront of the porn/toy shops door ... thats when they started rolling. So she got the :eek3: face and went to her car.

    Later that night the whole city watched as she "walked out of the porn shop putting her purchase into her purse" :rofl:

    She was bugged for quite some time about it
     
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    ^ :mamoru:

    do you have any idea what you'd want to get her? the first time my so went into a sex shop, i went with him. he told the girl at the counter he 'want[ed] something "fun" ' - she laughed and told him she'd need more specifics in order to help, i.e. videos, dildos, clothes, vibes, cuffs....

    if you go into the shop they will be more than willing to help you find the toy that is right for you. you just need to figure out what direction you want to take.

    restraints?
    dildos?
    vibrators?
    butt plugs?
    lingerie?
    videos?

    what would you and your gf be comfortable with to start.
     
  12. MrInconsistant

    MrInconsistant New Member

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    if you can't get over your embarassment, you can rent a PO box and have it delivered there.
     
  13. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Adam & Eve has some pretty good consumer reviews on their products too!
     
  14. Cobber

    Cobber Wanna touch my bunny hole?

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    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

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    the last time i went to a sex shop, while im walking out with my purchase(for my FS elf) the alarm rings because the new girl at the counter had forgotten to take the anti theft thing out. so of course everybody at the front of the store looks (mebbie 5 people includeing employees), i was wide eyed looking around cause i had no idea what happened. so two girls come over and look through my bag, pulling the harness open and inspecting it. the counter girl was blushing, i think she was more embarassed than i was, when i saw that it totally broke the ice for me and i could barely stop myself from laughing. i will definately never be embarrased going into one again.

    all in all one of the more interesting experiances ive had lately, having two strange girls look at a strapon harness with me in public. :o


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    oh, back on topic! take your girlfriend with you and make an event of it. its much more fun with someone else, and the two of you might get ideas :naughty:

    also, realize if you do get nervous/embarassed, just about everyone else in there feels the same way.
     
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  16. Tommy

    Tommy Long Member Standing

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    I would start with something small like a vibrating bullet. Use it on her clit and drive her wild. Then work your way into bigger toys when she gets comfortable.
     
  17. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    go together and just roam around, look at stuff and see what peaks both your interests. I used to go to the toy shop with friends just to shoot the shit.

    you'll be surprised what you can learn about a person's wants if you go and just browse and be honest with eachother about what you want to try.
     

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