SRS Want GF, have no game, hate bars/clubs.

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  1. deadmeat

    deadmeat Active Member

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    My work environment is a sausagefest. I seriously dislike bars and clubs. I enjoy cycling, back @ gym regularly, shooting, racing.

    Suggestions welcome.

    Posted here because I don't want the abuse in the main.

    I have signed up for meetups as well.

    Many thanks.
     
  2. no lol today

    no lol today Soy la bailarina de la muerta. OT Supporter

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    Hehe I was going to suggest meetup :big grin:
     
  3. Japan Four

    Japan Four Guest

    try okcupid.com. its a great place to find women/men to date that have similar/common interests.
     
  4. johan

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    Don't like bars? Great. Don't go to any.


    Pick a sport. Something that's relatively easy and co-ed.
    I.e. no point in signing up for aussie rules rugby.


    Join a tennis club. Or ultimate frisbee. Or an outdoors club.



    You'll get fit and healthy. You'll meet girls that are slim, trim, fit and healthy.

    Fit and healthy young girls are usually very juicy and have lots of ....stamina... ;)

    Enjoy.
     
  5. deadmeat

    deadmeat Active Member

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    Actually the tennis club sounds like a good idea. I can mooch off my aunt's membership.
     
  6. liquidblue73

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    church groups have nice people, online dating sites, community gatherings, and of the like.
     
  7. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    part-time job someplace that has a lot of women working there

    quit when you find a gf
     
  8. LiveSideways

    LiveSideways Two bitches at the same time, synchronized swimmer

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    I've noticed the caliber of women at bars changes a lot with themed nights. I've met a ton of cool people on Karaoke nights, 80's nights, etc. More interesting people tend to show up when its not just about getting drunk and trying to fuck someone. How old are you? If you're ~25 you should come up to Fullerton and meet our group of friends. If you're much older than that you might feel out of place.
     
  9. deadmeat

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    lol. 34. Too old for that group, but I am going to check on themed stuff in LB. It sounds like a very good idea.
     
  10. Pepe

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    dude, match.com.

    my buddy did it and has pulled a lot of tail from there. just create a non creepy profile, put up some good pics, and apparently it is stocked like a trout farm.
     
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    What are you talking about?
     
  12. KyleWhitey

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    sex basically
     
  13. deadmeat

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    Yeah. It's a relationship I'm after. Sex is always fun, but I also want a Girl Friend. Hence the term.
     
  14. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    If by "nice" you mean "fake," then sure.

    Most heavily involved church group attending types are extremely hypocritical. Church groups are nothing different than popularity contests and cliques like in high school.

    Fuck that noise.
     
  15. BoomBoomBoy

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    Not sure if you're religious, but you can meet gals at church groups. Also, this may seem like a lame suggestion, but if you bowl, there are always a boatload of single women in mixed leagues. Other options could be co-ed softball leagues, or dancing clubs (like West Coast swing).

    BTW, I'm right down the street from you.
     
  16. liquidblue73

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    The church we belong too isn't like that at all. Sorry that you have such a tainted view.

    We participate in many different functions and I've yet to see any of this clique/popularity you're talking about. There are a lot of singles looking to mingle with other singles that don't like the club scenes, that dont' want to put up with the game BS that goes along with trying to find a partner. We've had several successful relationships start through various groups.
     
  17. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Must be nice.... every church I've ever been to has been exactly the opposite when it comes to social activities and events.
     
  18. deusexaethera

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    Ditto. There's also the problem that if your beliefs are significantly different than theirs, you kinda get shut out, or else witnessed to, both of which are fucking annoying.

    From what I've heard, bookstores are good places to meet girls who aren't into the bar/club scene.
     
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    if the guy has no game i doubt he's going to be picking up girls in broad daylight in book stores...
     
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    Facebook sure helps.

    That's where me and my boyfriend started. And all you have to do is just to say 'Hi'.
     
  21. gummypoop

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    what is your past experience with women?
     
  22. Rellik

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    no, for a guy? you have to have a carefully crafted profile, with good looking pictures, lots of friends, wall posts and comments basically showing you're a popular person and you've got an interesting life that people want to be a part of... if the OP had this kind of setup already he wouldnt be posting here
     
  23. deadmeat

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    Met my ex wife at 16. Dated some others when I was in the Air Force and just after. Got back together with first one and got married. Had kids. Signed divorce papers last week.

    Not much. My problem is that I always met women at work.

    There are no women at my work.

    Trying to figure out how to meet nerdy girls that aren't fugly.
     
  24. johan

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    The church groups suggestion had promise.

    Although it's not for me, I have some acquaintances that are part of church groups.

    One particular group, it's well acknowledged that most of the guys there are just going to meet girls. No, it's not a hookup scene.

    It's just a place to do "wholesome" activities with young girls. Most everyone there is between 20ish to 29ish.

    And, its free, and having seen some of these girls....most of them are most definitely not fugly. In fact, most of them have a "hot/wholesome" thing going.

    Something like this:

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    Tell me you wouldn't rail that ;)
     
  25. gummypoop

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    aren't church girls committed to god, therefore not waiting sex til marriage?
     

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