Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by viper922, Jun 18, 2008.
Are you still a virgin if you have had oral??
They call it "oral sex" for a reason...
It's all a matter of opinion.
Personally, I don't find it to be "sex" unless the penis is penetrating the vagina or ass.
Yes you are.... ORAL DOES NOT COUNT... Bill Clinton said its not cheating. so its not sex
Keep talking... you're turning me on...
Yes, but you need to mention that caveat to the person asking the question.
Virgin = penis in pussy.
Technically you can take it in the ass or mouth and still be a virgin if you're a chick.
If you're a dude... um... getting your dick sucked doesn't count, but I'm not sure if fucking a chick in the ass does or not.
Are we seriously going to humor this one and actually have a debate?
So a guy who puts his dick in a girls asshole is no longer a virgin...but she is?
And on that note...if two gay guys have sex, is the giver still a virgin and the receiver not? Vice virsa?
Dammit, I feel like I'm back in philosophy class...
My first LTR was with a guy who told me he was a virgin when we first started dating, blah blah blah. Turns out, he had had a TON of anal sex but since it wasn't penis in vagina sex he had told me he was a virgin in all sincerity. That was an awkward moment when I found out like 8 months into our relationship
But, like people said it's a matter of opinion.
I personally, would not consider that meaning you've lost your virginity [oral]. But, I did consider "anal sex" to be lost virginity
exactly....kids have such a fucked up perception of sex these days. i will suck a hundred dicks and still not be a whore if i haven't put a dick in my vagina. nice
Just the tip. BWahahahahAHAHAhA!
I said I'm not sure.
So you have no opinion of it?
Technically if a guy has only had anal sex with a chick and not fucked her pussy then he is a virgin.
However he should probably mention that to a gf if he's ever in the situation where he's about to pussy fuck his new gf and she asks him if he's a virgin just like she should mention if she's been fucked up the ass but not pussy fucked. It's an honesty-disclosure type of thing.
I'm going with dick in ass or pussy = sex = not a virgin
dick in mouth, hand, or other = very sexual/bordering on sex = still a virgin, I guess, but...I mean seriously....you're kinda riding the border there.
I'm trying so hard to understand how anal doesn't qualify as sex.
it quailifies as a type of sex but maybe not losing-your-virginity sex
when i think of virginity, i think of that "special thing that a woman saves for her husband and that signals the beginning of making a baby"
anal sex cant get you pregnant. neither can oral sex. are they a type of sex? yeah. when i say i am no longer a virgin, am i saying anything about either of those 2? not at all. i would say i am no longer an oral virgin or an anal virgin. not just virgin
It's just so funny how that works.
Like I find it hilarious that there are ultra religious kids who have anal sex all the time bcause it's not viewed as taking their virginity sex.
oh yeah, its completely stupid actually
it seems like the TS is probably one of those kids too, which is why they are asking for the clarification
oral may not technically make you loose your virginity, but dont kid yourself and think you are still a perfect and innocent "virgin" either
And Elphaba brings up a great point. If you equate:
vaginal penetration=de-virginizing sex
Then what about gay men? Since they only can have anal sex are they considered virgins?
So, the times I've fucked a girl in the ass. And told whoever asked I got laid....I lied?
in my book, if a girl has had a cock in her ass she's no virgin